That's a fecking good question.
Too good maybe !
Should I run now before the mask slips or will I see how long I can get away with it.
Feck it.
I'm not running, I've nothing to run from.
I don't care what others see me as or think of me as a Dom I know myself and I've made perfect peace with that.
So why am I a Dom.
It came naturally to me I didn't court it I didn't research it and say ok I'll be this , in fact I didn't know it existed back then nevermind it existed within me.
I have asked myself many times where this Dom that I am came from how was he born who made him this way and I've banged my head against many walls trying to come up with answers reasons solutions to me being a Dom and I have never found out why fully.
Is it because I can't let go control that I have to be in charge so I can contain myself ? Nah. I'm not a narcissist my empathy runs string through me.
Am I a Dom because I like the attention ? Who fucking doesn't like attention when it's right and makes you feel good!
I'm a Dom because it is who I am.