I've often thought about why!
Why do I find myself drawn almost mesmerized by a woman who labels herself as submissive.
Sometimes I slip up and I think " oh yeah she'll do whatever I want when it comes to getting my end away " and then I step off the foolish bus and start walking back to reality.
No. It's not because she will do anything I want , feck no that would be just well , boring, as boring watching me doing a jigsaw in the dark .
Is it because I'm a sexual deviant who has this sense of arousal almost continually, in that I'm lucky it's not always my wang that's aroused or my brain would loose blood flow and I could become a politician or worse an influencer !!!
Na. Not because I'm a horn dog in old school name calling. So what the fuck is it then.
I took an age to find out. I went from boob to boob trying to find out what makes me feel happy and in my comfort zone with a submissive female of the woman kind from Venus and beyond.
So full disclosure this is my thinking and my findings on me, just plain old me , yup that bloke with the bad haircut no sense of style and yet cute as a button with a cheeky glint in the eyes Me , mé fein.
I like a submissive woman because of a myriad of reasons all wonderful to me all important to me .
This submissive woman is : strong as fuck mentally usually after having a shite time before getting herself out of dodge.
Is absolutely empowered in who she is and is more comfortable with that than her favorite pair of knickers that never go ass crack diving .
Has the most insane connection with her sexuality her sexual thoughts and her sexual activity.
Is usually carrying so many dumbasses on her shoulders she is technically classed as a weight lifter yet can give so much to the Dom/Domme that just gives her a helping hand .
And finally for me if she is married or has been married can look outside the lines see the world enter the world let go and then go back recharged and look back at me smiling where the connection is formed and framed.
This to me are some of the reasons I find myself drawn to a submissive woman ... Oh and in the fairness of some disclosure if she rocks a great ass it seems it's my kryptonite and I'm not even a fecking superman , go figure !!