Being here in this place is good for me , yes it is and what I mean is true.
There is a cohort of people in here walking a similar path to myself , sure there are a lot of cultural differences that can be fun as much as confusing and it's certainly made me learn a few new things.
Especially to the wonderful and beautiful submissive self described women in here who have been patient with my poor grammar my forwardness my big Irish boots trampling all over the place and my , and I admit , pretty rude sense of humour.
I have made friends here and that's a good thing. The blogs are interesting in giving me different points of views more understanding of things kink related and the people ( mainly the ladies) involved. It has been so far so much fun for me that I at times forget my first reason I can to this site in the first place why it has brought me back a few times why I still look forward to logging in. Kink . That's why I'm here, kink and it's very eclectic world of diversity and wildness.
My kinks are a part of me they are strong sinews of character running through me and I need to feed them take care of them give them the strength to keep me and the rest of me together so I can be who I am.
Mainly I've kept my kinks hidden somewhat , yes yes I'm here labelled as a Dom , which I am very much so , but the word Dom which is self explaining in it's self is more , it's more than that ro me. I want to express it more I want to feed the hunger.
Ok all sounds very selfish to some maybe but to me it's important my Dom is not lost in the cage. My Dom has a roar wants to roar and without fear to let it be known it NEEDS to roar.