Here for me this time around

Maybe things happen for a reason and we should be thankful that we dodged a bullet

What exactly is Limerence, you ask.

Limerence is an intense, involuntary, and often consuming state of romantic infatuation with another person, characterized by intrusive thoughts, a strong desire for reciprocation, and idealization of the other person. It is a state of obsession driven by uncertainty about the other person's feelings, which can cause anxiety but also intense elation. 

Sound familiar?   Don’t most Dominants task submissives to keep them in mind at all times?

You can tell if someone is limerent by observing obsessive thoughts, idealization, and intense emotional dependence on another person, which can disrupt daily life. Other signs include a deep longing for reciprocation, anxiety and fear of rejection, compulsive behaviors like seeking contact, and extreme emotional highs and lows based on the other person's actions. Limerence can be disruptive and feel like a biochemical obsession rather than love.

Are the actions of a submissive so different when they are released from a dynamic?

How do we keep ourselves from spiraling into destructive patterns and behaviors?

This morning was like Christmas for me. I giggled as I opened all of  the remote toys that had been set aside as rewards. Now that the dynamic is done, the wait to earn them is over!   So many buzzy fun things to play with!  

Did you know that the Lovense app now has a section that lets you play with other people anonymously?   All you have to do is set up a control link and wait for someone to join in.   

cyber slut?

website wap?

Techno tease?

Maybe I’ll just call it fun   😈

I ran…..that’s what I usually do.  I was going to lick my wounds and lament. I deleted everything, including permanently deleting my profile here, in hopes that I could hide from the world and from myself, if I am being honest. Then a lightbulb moment struck.

Why? Why do I need to run like I have done something wrong? Why isolate myself from friends who will lift my spirits and help me to heal.  Why indeed!  

What’s the best way to get over someone?….Get under someone else.  😂.

 While I won’t be doing that, I am already enjoying the attention that new subs to the site receive. The past ways of handling rough times hasn’t worked for me, so it’s time to try something new. I am retiring the sneakers.

I’m going to flirt and enjoy attention.  I’m going to keep up the social activities and self care.   I’m going to pamper myself and allow all of the love that I give out to come back to me.  I deserve it!