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3 weeks ago. Thursday, May 14, 2026 at 8:39 PM

So I got a polite email from a, new to this site, Dom.  His first few messages were brief and he asked me to tell him all about myself.    That is a VERY broad subject, where does one begin?  I asked him what he wanted to know and he asked about my experiences in the lifestyle.    I gave a brief and shallow summary and asked him to tell me about his.   He made sure to tell me that he “lives” the lifestyle and that it’s more than just kinky sex.   I told him that I agreed.  

His very next message was requesting if he could be forward and ask how sexual I am.   I responded quickly and informed him that I prefer to keep things vanilla and don’t tell just anyone about my personal information.  His very next message was to tell me that until I am ready to tell him about how sexual I am, I didn’t need to contact him again.  

Wait….what?   I thought we agreed that the lifestyle is more than just about kinky sex.  Did I miss something? When I told him that, he stated that obviously we are not compatible.

   As IF!   

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