I watched a fairly rare porn post on tumblr, there's a chance I'll find a link to it before I post it but you know how difficult Tumblr is.
I shall describe, Homemade, girl spread eagled on bed with ties allowing a little wriggle - bra and knickers still on. Her partner is kissing, licking and biting, squeezing and pushing, scratching and stroking her all over. He works up, kissing and whispering, he works down, at all times avoiding her vulva. She's delightfully distraught, at one point he even insist she calms down and lies back.
He kisses the back of a knee that articulates a wriggling leg and I think she cries out in tortured delight. I can't remember, by that point I was lost and throbbing myself .
Simple sense play - edging - touching everything except the obvious sweet spot. The Dom's face, confident but fun, in control and enjoying his writhing sub but watching her reaction. Her increasing pleasure, frustration, increasing lack of control. Bliss.
I like the long play, in fact I think it's fair to say I need the long play. Want to torment me on Saturday evening? You will have to start the soft scene on the Tuesday before, I'll never really concentrate otherwise. I think I have a sort of creative and empathic ADHD.
All the BDSM novels wax lyrical about how a sub need to let go of all her worries, smart women and busy minds - you will have seen the quote. Mmm..dare I say it? I don't need saving from my busy mind - I need a top to be more interesting to my than the range of thoughts I'm having about a photo idea or the Secret Cypher of the Ufonauts ( all hail the goblins) or if Derrida wrote poetry ( he makes up words) or artichokes - why? After the after care - it's very possible I will be full of creativity and lacking the adoration a Dom might deserve.
Not much more to add - I'm distracted by the interesting clouds and potential thunderstorm.
I'll add a photo to sweeten to deal of reading this far. (P.S I cant find a link to the clip but I'm 76inanna on tumblr.)
"Sex and art are the same thing."
Picasso