The Inner Workings of A Serial Submissive

sexycurves​(sub female) - Love this ? thanks for sharing

Blondie​(sub female)​{Collared} - I hope others can get as much out of it as I did.

naughtiangel​(sub female)​{Taken} - Of course you can ask questions. Always ask questions, never stop. The day you stop asking questions is the day the interest is running out. Keep the communication going. ???

Blondie​(sub female)​{Collared} - I do tend to be very inquisitive. ?

naughtiangel​(sub female)​{Taken} - I know!! And you know I'm ALWAYS asking questions ?

Blondie​(sub female)​{Collared} - May get us into trouble one of these days. lol

naughtiangel​(sub female)​{Taken} - A little trouble can be fun!!

Sir Andrew USA​(dom male) - This was a great read.

IMO - A good Dom/Domme will understand that the only thing they have is an "appearance" of control. I can think I am "taking control" but without it being offered freely, I will grasp for it and clench only vapor.

Questions are the key - to the collar, the leash, the cage ... I need to ensure my sub's safety - both actual and perceived. If I cannot deliver on their safety, they will not trust me, my "rules", my desires. Without their questions I cannot judge/guage how well or poorly I am leading/experiencing my sub. Without questions I cannot provide the attention my sub needs to be filled full.

Without questions; I cannot learn.

Thank you for posting this. I, for one, appreciate it!

Happy New Year All!

Blondie​(sub female)​{Collared} - Thank you for your input. It is always good to hear other opinions and views. That is how we learn. Happy New Year to you as well!

Master13​(dom male)​{MajesticLy} - Questions are always good. It helps with communications. Same as what SA said above the questions help the dom. I truly believe neither the sub nor the Dom has the full control. It's both working together ans sharing their roles

Blondie​(sub female)​{Collared} - I agree that it is both that share the control and responsibility. Thank you for your input. ?

Master13​(dom male)​{MajesticLy} - You know you will always have my support and input anytime you ask a question. I and your cage friends are always here.

Blondie​(sub female)​{Collared} - You are such a wonderful constant in my life. Thank you ?

Master13​(dom male)​{MajesticLy} - Yeppers - I am constantly your pervert ???

Satindragon​{Not Lookin} - Great article. Thank you for sharing. Great to read the comments of others as well.

Blondie​(sub female)​{Collared} - I am happy that you enjoyed it.

Lilkitten​(sub female)​{Deepwater} - Great article and I hope all subs (and Doms) read it and take it to heart. We should always continue to ask questions, even in a long term relationship, as people change and develop, their thoughts and feelings about things may change as well. I’ve watched you grow so much on your path as a submissive. Very proud of you. ❤️❤️

Blondie​(sub female)​{Collared} - Thank you. You have been there along the way to help me form my own questions and see that it’s good to do so. ?

Sir​(dom male)​{taken} - I concur. Great questions every a Dom should have aswered prior to them having to be asked.