My Submissive Heart and Soul

The gift of love

The gift of peace

The gift of happiness

May all that is beautiful, meaningful and brings you joy be yours this holiday season and throughout the coming year

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Love is unconditionally accepting each other as we are. 

Not in spite of our flaws, but because of them. Whole people. Embracing each others strengths, our weaknesses, our quirks. 

How does it feel to be loved like that? To be cared for like that?

It feels wonderful  ❤

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I am passionate

I am wild

I am stubborn and strong

I am fragile and needy

I am gracefully submissive

I am beautiful chaos

I’m not one for just any Dom

But for that Warrior

For my King, My Daddy

For the One who sees all of that and does not run from it but embraces and nurtures it

I will be His everything

His Queen, His Little One, His Goddess, His Muse

❤❤❤

I am yours Daddy  

Lil k 

Thanks TreasureMe for a fun challenge! One of my fave's 😏

Here is the original challenge

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You talk the good talk ... BUT, that's all it is  .. talk.  You say all the right things .. until the challenging waves come.  And they do come ... in every relationship. When they do, if the behaviour of your Dom or sub doesn't match the words they speak ... my advice ..  turn around and run!

Whether Dom or Sub, in time, the true colours of the person you are, is revealed. For this blog I speak of Doms.

You discuss expectations, limits, wants and needs with each other. You appear to be understanding and respectful of all discussed. But, at the first sight of unsure waters, your actions are to jump ship, looking for a new ship to set sail with.  

I've said it before in blogs about what makes a good Dom. To be a good Dom, you must FIRST be a good MAN. 

A good MAN has a strong sense of ethics, honesty and is respectful in their behaviours with others. MOST especially with their subs.

To be a good Dominant takes more than a crop, a stern look or demands.

The basic foundation is TRUST.

Without trust, there is nothing of substance. No substance to the dynamic nor the person.

It is these qualities, more than anything else, that define a person’s character and personality. They are the essential skills that determine how good a person is liable to be as a Dominant.

While some components of domination is very much a skill, true Dominants tend to show a willingness to learn, to grow and to understand. They are on a journey as much as any submissive.

A good Dom takes the time and effort to learn and grow as a person, which in turn, naturally flows into their dominance.

If you want to be a true and good Dom, then be one that a sub can TRUST in your words. BE her safe place. 

Look within yourself. Be honest with yourself and others.

If you're a person (Dom or sub) who have jumped ship at first sight of unsure waters .. perhaps it's time to stay on land and learn from your experiences and change the behaviors ... instead of leaving a trail of flotsam and jetsam in your wake. 

I am one of the lucky ones ... my Daddy IS my safe place and the One I can trust implicitly.

It breaks my heart to watch friends go through the heartache of learning they can't trust the person talking the talk and that they've jumped ship. 😔

TRUST  ... takes the longest to build  .. but only seconds to destroy 

Daddy's Rules ...

You should know by now little one ...

I will not touch you unless you ask me to

I will not take you unless you beg me

I will not own you unless you give yourself freely

But when I own you ... 

what I want

when I want

how I want

where I want

Just my Rules …

As sleep eludes me, my thoughts are flooded with all you are to me.

You are the sweet caress of the spring breeze that touches my very soul. The brilliance of the sunrise ... my sunshine. 

You are so much more than words can ever begin to describe.

While we're apart, every night my heart screams out into the darkness for you, my arms yearn to hold you close to me again, to feel your body against mine, skin against skin, my body responding to your touch.

Your love to me is as vital as air is to breath....

All that I have to hold right now is the thought of you and the words of love which we share, until we can be together again ... ready to start a new life together ... ready to face the world hand in hand and create a new life for us, with our love to guide the way and grow stronger.

I love you Daddy.

I am Yours.

❤❤❤

A core belief that I have about BDSM, is that submission is the greatest gift that one person will give to another.

You simply can’t ask more than the giving of one’s body, mind and soul to another person to use however they please.

But it is never one sided, when done right.

The Dom accepts the gift and values the gift’s worth for the amazing and stunningly beautiful gift that it is.

He commits (far more than a promise) to cherish, nurture and protect her, to keep her safe.

It is the reward that each of us strives for.

Ohhh... I have so many favorites ... here are some of them

... and can't forget  ...

The many sides of me that Daddy deals with and always seems to know just how to handle...

In general  ... 

At times ...

And ...

Always ... 

And sometimes ... 

... and ohh, soooo many more 🤭🤭

Daddy takes very good care of me ... all of me ... and I take care of Him.  

❤❤❤