Music is in my soul, so I’m totally in ...
Here is JJ’s original blog challenge:
https://thecage.co/blog/userblog.php?blog_id=59247
Although, I am very eclectic in my taste ...
For Part One ...
And For Part Two ...
.. but ohh sooo many to choose from 😊😊
Sometimes, I shake my head and think "how completely pathetic they are". They know not how it makes them look. You know, the silent ones, the observers.
The game players, liars and cheats. They portray their motto is "to protect what is given". But in truth, they take, steal and destroy what should have been cherished.
You know .. the ones who call themselves Doms but don't know the true meaning nor deserve that title.
The ones who know nothing of integrity or true respect. The ones who have multiple subs without being honest about it. The ones who give off all the right signals, who are masters of nothing but manipulation and deception.
When they get caught at their game, go sniveling away, pining over what they've lost ... instead of being a man and owning up to what they've done to others.
Real people, who put their trust and vulnerabilities in their hands to be cared for. Treating some so terribly heartless and cruel, while treating others by skulking in the shadows, pining away and hoping for a moment of weakness to lure them back .. to what? More trickery and disrespect .. because that's all they know to do.
They come and go periodically. Never learning the lesson that needs learning. To treat people with true respect and honesty.
Not by receiving a gift so precious through deceit.
For then .. it has merely been taken and not protected as it should be.
Some will never learn.
SMH ... poor pathetic them.
I almost feel sorry for them 🤔🤔 nah .. not really
I am so grateful I've found a real man and Dom who knows how to show true respect and how to cherish all I give to Him.
When I’m most fragile, you comfort me like no other. Always protecting me.
With one simple gesture, you heal my deepest wounds, ease my deepest fears.
❤❤❤
My walk up song challenge ..
https://thecage.co/blog/userblog.php?postid=43387&blog_id=45308
As much as being a sub is deep within in my soul, so is music. I have always been surrounded and involved in it all my life. It is my passion. It speaks to me. It moves me. It lifts me up. It soothes me. It inspires me.
Sometimes, when the melody and the words are just what I need at the moment, I feel it...physically. I feel a tingling in my body, goosebumps on my skin, and just as being a sub, it feels like the air I need to breathe.
I'm very eclectic in my taste, everything from big band to motown, to rock and new top hits...and musicals. I love musicals because they usually have a subliminal message to them and the music and words speak to my heart.
While some may think it's dorky, my little LOVES the one I watched tonight on Disney + ... Descendants (1 & 2) I'm sure all the littles here will love it! 🥰
The theme song at the end of tonight's movie just spoke to me...filled me up with what I needed right now.
Lil k is refreshed and ready to take on whatever comes next!!
Looking back at yesterday
I thought I gave it everything
But still there's so much road ahead of me
When I looked into your eyes
I guess I didn't recognize
Who we are and all that we can be
Sometimes it's hard to find yourself
But it's worth it in the end
'Cause in your heart is where it all begins
We gotta be bold
We gotta be brave
We gotta be free
We gotta get loud
Making that change
You gotta believe
We'll look deep inside
And we'll rise up and shine
We can be bold
We can be brave
Let everyone see
It starts with you and me
It starts with you and me
It starts with you and me
There's something special that I've learned
It's together we can change the world
Everybody's got something that they can bring
When you take a look inside yourself
Do you wish that you were something else?
But who you are is who you need to be
Sometimes it's hard to find yourself
But it's worth it in the end
'Cause in your heart is where it all begins
We gotta be bold
We gotta be brave
We gotta be free
We gotta get loud
Making that change
You gotta believe
We'll look deep inside
And we'll rise up and shine
We can be bold
We can be brave
Let everyone see
It starts with you and me
It starts with you and me
It starts with you and me
We all can do a part
We know that it can be the start
To bring about the difference that we need
I promise we can work this out
I promise we can see it through
Don't you know it's up to me
It's up to me and you
We gotta be bold
We gotta be brave
We gotta be free
We gotta get loud
Making that change
You gotta believe
We'll look deep inside
And we'll rise up and shine
We can be bold
We can be brave
Let everyone see
It starts with you and me
It starts with you and me
It starts with you and me
... I can't wait to watch the 3rd sequel!!
Lil k
💝🎼🎵🎶🎵🎶
It's the early hours of the morning and sleep has been allusive for the better part of the night. Someone recently blogged asking the question, what it means to be a submissive. I've been thinking about it and this is what it means to me ...
I am a submissive woman. I am proud to call myself that. It is something I have always felt deep within my soul. It is not what I do .. it is who I am.
I am not weak, or stupid. I am a strong woman, with firm views and a clear concept of what I want my life to be. I do not serve out of shame or weakness, I serve out of pride and strength.
It is my natural state. It is how I express my love and caring for all I hold dear to my heart.
In a loving relationship, I find pleasure, joy, and fulfillment from being submissive to another.
My submission is a gift that I do not give lightly and can only be given completely to one who can appreciate that gift and return it tenfold.
Those who haven't been pure and honest in their intentions, have never received my complete submission. I held back, for whatever reason at the time, I wasn't able to, something was lacking. In hindsight, it was because they just did not, could not provide me with the complete devotion and respect I need and deserve.
Only to He who has that strength will I give myself fully, because I am strong and proud.
For me, it means, I show love through acts of service and devotion, to the one whom I have found trustworthy. He appreciates my way of showing love and appreciates my deed-seeded need to serve. There is no greater freedom; to be able to live in agreement with our deepest natures.
For me, it means having the structure I need. I need rules. I need tasks. Structure is what helps keep me balanced in my everyday. Without it, I begin to feel lost, like I'm flailing as a person, as a submissive.
It means having someone who respects and cares and knows all of me. He understands just how much I need these things and provides a safe environment for me to do so. He loves me and wants to ensure He provides those things for me daily. He also loves me enough to provide guidance, advise, and even discipline when needed.
For me, this is the most important and most intimate part of a D/s relationship. It is the foundation. The sexual desires are what I consider the bonus. When the intimate connection is so deep, it naturally creates a safe environment for the sexual exploration and enjoyment.
My thoughts and desires have always involved being pursued, captured, restrained, enjoyed by and submitting to a worthy Dominant male. The key word is worthy ... someone who is naturally Dominant, honest and knows Himself. He appreciates my adoration and service and is worthy of my trust. I have wanted to live this life 24/7 for as long as I can remember.
It fulfills me to please others and to give of myself. Please don't mistake that this makes me a pushover or can be manipulated. I am an observer. I watch as people behave and respond to others. I watch for their true character. I chose very carefully whom to allow to get close.
It means, I tend to over-think everything. I can get stuck in a worst-case scenario or processing loop over most any decision. So, simplifying my life by devoting myself to Him, as His submissive, allows me to make all decisions based on what pleases Him.
Again, this only works because I judge Him as wise, just, fair and trustworthy.
I am a submissive woman. It is my natural state.
For all those who have fought, are fighting, will fight ...
Finally!!! 😇😈
... it's been a long week 😕
I could be on my own. I am strong, successful, smart.
But, I need Him...I want Him. Not for His body or the material things He can give. I want Him for Him, for the man He is.
My protector, my friend, my reason and my partner in crime, my shoulder to lay my head on, my advisor and so much more.
Most of all, I want Him for the peace He gives me,
... for those arms of His that make me feel safe,
... for that smirk that can make my panties melt,
... for that tone of voice that I know means business and pleasure,
... for that part of Him that only I know and
... for that big heart that only beats for me...
Him ... He is all I need.
He is mine
❤❤❤