WE NEED YOU!!!
(Previous post edited and re-posted)
Lately, I have read so many blogs by subs who have been dupped, treated badly and down right cruelly. And the most commonality of it all?? Honesty!!!
Like .. come on you so-called men. It's not that hard!! Grow a spine!! Just be honest ... about who you are, whether you have or want more than one sub, what you're looking for, etc.
Let's take being a Dom out of the equation for a moment. Because in my opinion, you cannot be a true and good Dom, if you are not a good MAN first.
I have watched friends here, myself included, be blatantly lied to, fed half-truths, or completely mislead, tricked and treated cruelly. Even after taking due diligence and thinking they were safe and cautious.
A REAL man treats a woman, first and foremost, with respect. Every person deserves to be respected, man or woman.
A real man has integrity. That means, being strong enough in character to be HONEST. Honest about himself, honest about his situation ... just honest.
I consider myself a feminist, to a degree. I believe in equal rights, the right to choose our own lives and paths .. you get the gist of it (I hope). A real man gives a woman the chance to choose for herself, knowing ALL the facts before entering into a relationship with him. As well, as when things evolve in the relationship. Be man enough to just be honest, not ghosting her, playing cruel tricks, lying that she's the only one, leaving her confused and hurt.
Be one who is brave enough to tell the truth, face the realities. He does not take that choice away from her. Forcing her, unwittingly to make a choice based on a lie. A REAL man owns up to who he is and his mistakes.
Lying is a CHOICE. It is NOT an accident. It is deliberate. IT IS THE ACT OF A COWARD.
Sadly, some here are only masters of one thing ... deceit and cruelty. Over-inflated egos. You are not worth the time of day.
There are many better men out there that will happily step up and show her how a real man treats her and enjoy her and you won't even be a spot of dust in their light.
To the men here who are deceivers ... I would normally get angry here ... but to be perfectly honest ... you are pure and simply PATHETIC ... spineless, cowards and weak. Not even CLOSE to the measure of a real man. And most definitely not a good and true Dom.
A real man and good Dom, treats with respect, caring, love, kindness and honesty, even with the knowledge she may walk away. But at least you can both have your dignity intact and it is based on truth.
A real man makes the choice to do the right thing, not play games. These are REAL lives, REAL people, REAL emotions, REAL pain.
When you have these qualities and live by them each and every day, THEN you can consider yourself to be ready to be a good and true Dom.
Unfortunately, those who need to read this won't. Sadly, they will just move on to their next victim. You know who you are!! And if you don't, well...if you are doing any of the above to a person ... hopefully you'll feel some guilt and step up and just do the right thing.
To THE GOOD MEN AND DOMS HERE ... keep being who you are. We women, we subs ... NEED you!
There are some here who have been so deeply hurt, they NEED to know there are good men and Doms out there.
And when you know of a wrong doing, reach out and let them know ... it's not cool. Be a mentor...even to subs so they know what to look for in a Dom.
Yes, I am angry.
Angry that my precious friends are in pain and I can only console and help hold them up until they gain their strength and confidence again.
To those who cause such pain, I'll leave you to your imagination as to how I'd like to use my sword on you.
Better yet, BE A MAN!!!
A REAL man!
And to all to good and true Doms/Men here ... THANK YOU! We need more of you here! Be a role model to show what a true and good man is. Be a mentor to show what a true and good Dom is.
