I have done both....traveled in both circles...been there done that but no one has given me any dang cutsie T-SHIRT!!!!:);):);0!!!
Have to admit there is a biiiiig diff and not much diff between the 2 sometimes and in someways....boils down to humans are humans....
Anyone else hearing that tune???!!!???
" People are people so why should it be
You and I should get along so awfully"~ Depeche Mode
Don't get me wrong have had some extremely pleasing experiences in both worlds, online and real world....I just don't think you can compare the 2 it's like comparing apples and oranges...specially for BDSM and sex....I mean really one you are having sex with yourself basically with the help of another stimulating you by images/words/and maybe if lucky views....the other is a contact experience, hopefully....gigggle giggggle giggggle....
I started my BDSM learning/journey/discovery process lonnnnnng long ago before I knew about the letters and that there was such a thing by playing many different types of naughty kinky fun sex types with partners in the real world....I don't think I need to go into detail...or I just won't go into detail...many of us have started this way...playing sexually not knowing there was a name for how we enjoyed to play....then I started reading and learning and well my life became such that I went to online play....
I learned what I was in the BDSM world while I was playing online and at the same time learned about the reality of how others behave positively and negatively who sit behind anonymous screen....
I personally can't say which world is easier or harder to navigate in...which is more fun i think is the real world...it's harder though to find a partner...thus that is why we are here...we are here all hoping that this online meet & greet or at least some of us will evolve into more....
1crazygirl/1cg/sarah