Ginger's Nest

Azure Kitsune​(sub female) - Sometimes you reflect about it alone and see what is happening in your own life separate them your Dom. If it is a struggle that you see as separate from the dynamic then it would be appropriate to share that with them. If it is the dynamic itself, I think having a good sitdown and discussing what you feel and having them know can open up why you feel that way.

I sometimes just want to curl up and be alone, but those are the times I speak up and say that. If there is a need or even a want that is causing this then speak to them about it. They deserve to know why you feel that way.

I have used a lot of words only to say that everything a person feels is valid. I do not believe we can control how we feel, just our willingness to share, overcome, and react to those feelings.

Bunnie - I’m curious as to under what circumstances this arises for you? When you say [when] “he tries to be dommy with me,” what do you mean? With a little more digging and clarification perhaps we may be able to unravel it a bit more to see what’s there.

All3n​(dom male) - As a friend, I'd suggest that you have a conversation with him. So that both of you can continue to move in the same direction.