Name' sake

Jack in the box -
"Absence makes the heart grow fonder" I said
"Out of sight out of mind"
Was her response

justcurvysub - Sounds like fear talking in my opinion. Fear of expressing her true feelings and thoughts.
Good she had someone wise like yourself to teach her different.

Jack in the box -
Well thank you sweet girl, how nice of you to say. 😘🌹

justcurvysub - *tell her different

justcurvysub - I said it because I feel it's true or else I wouldn't have said it not even just to be nice, also I had very similar conversation once so I felt I could share some insight on her reason for that response. Which I feel very confident when I tell you I'm sure she regretted it as soon as it came out of her mouth maybe even to this day in time. Hopefully she has learned sooner than age 40 that words cannot be taken back no matter how hard you will it with all your heart and power.

Jack in the box -
Again, thank you - I am flattered 😊 🌹
You are absolutely right, words once spoken cannot be retrieved

justcurvysub - P.s Did your heart grow fonder? Did hers?

Jack in the box - She married my brother

justcurvysub - Hmmm...well, I don't know you well enough to say if you had it coming to you or not but I really don't believe anyone deserves to be hurt by the person they've chosen to love.
You know it's kind of ironic but my heart grew fonder and well my person hasn't wanted me in his sight for about 2years now.

Jack in the box -
Depends who you ask 😏

It can be crippling holding on to a flame that only burns on one side. "What if it rekindles? . . . .what if it never does and I waste years hoping?"
My advice? Life is brief, move on 🌹

justcurvysub - P.s I'm just curious I hope you don't mind but why if she married your brother would you want to recall words said between you two and blog a memory you had with her ?

Jack in the box -
I felt it had ironic relevance to the lyrics of the song. This was long ago and since has become an almost laughable life lesson.
(They divorced as well)
Danny DeVito, in 'war of the roses' said -
"There are two dilemmas... that rattle the human skull. How do you hold onto someone who won't stay? And how do you get rid of someone who won't go?"

justcurvysub - That's funny lol that quote is very true. I'm kinda leaning towards the "how do you get rid of someone who won't go" problem well actually a little of both but that's a very long story for another day and time lol
Oh no I've moved on I realize there's no hope like I said it's been around 2yrs since we last spoke. I may be crazy but I'm not stupid. If he wanted me we'd be talking right now besides I felt much for him and want nothing but for him to be happy even though that means I'm not included in his life. So enough of that don't want to bore you🙄😴 lol