Accidental Tie Up

Day Six:

After a full day and two nights of rest, I felt a mix of excitement and hesitation about getting back into the cage. I’ve been applying aloe oil to soothe the area, but the spot at the base is still sore, and there are visible broken blood vessels near the tail where the ring sits. I definitely caused more damage than I initially realized, and it’s clear that my body isn’t healing as quickly as it once did.

Still, I wanted to cautiously test whether I could wear the cage again. After 1 hour, 21 minutes, and 7 seconds, it became obvious that I needed more time to heal. It’s frustrating, but pushing it now would only make things worse. This really sucks.

Day Seven:

Yet another day of rest. I feel disappointed, a bit ashamed, and honestly like an idiot. I can’t believe I did this knowing from the start that getting used to the cage would be difficult. It feels like I sabotaged myself. At this point, I estimate it will take at least a few more days to fully heal, which likely means I won’t get another real chance to practice. I’m not feeling very confident that I can complete this competition exactly as intended—but I’ve decided that even if I can’t physically wear the cage, I’ll wear one mentally and continue the event that way.

Day Eight:

Continuing the healing process.

Day Nine(1/9/26):

I can barely feel any soreness now. I’m almost 100% ready to start wearing the cage again.

Mistress Ash, who is hosting the event, has set up our group on Telegram and is getting everything organized. So far, there are 27 of us.

Here are the complete rules for the competition: 

RULES

CHASTITY:
⦿ Each of you will remain locked in a chastity cage for the duration of the competition.
⦿ The competition will last for 30 days.
⦿ While locked, each of you shall post time stamped photos to the verifications group of their locked cage to the verifications group twice per day and upon my demand.

BIDDING:
⦿ At least two days per week, I will announce an edging day in the pinned messages of the Verification chat.
⦿ Prior to each edging session, each of you will send me a private message directly to me with your pledge stating how many edging strokes you will complete. Your bids are not to be shared with the group. All bids will be blind to others in the group.
⦿ All bids are due before midnight on the day prior to the edging day.
⦿ Your bids will be in increments of five.
⦿ The minimum number of strokes that you will pledge is 25 strokes.

EDGING:
⦿ Each of you will post a time stamped video of your edging sessions in the Verifications chat group.
⦿ You will use lube while edging.
⦿ Edging will be done at around 60 strokes per minute, unless I specify otherwise.
⦿ One edging stroke is counted as one full up and down stroke.
⦿ Once you begin your edging session has begun, you will continue until you complete all of the strokes you have pledged.
⦿ Each successfully completed edging stroke = 1 point.
⦿ Scoring will be cumulative for the duration of the competition..
⦿ If any of you orgasms while edging, he bankrupts all of his accumulated points and starts the next session with zero points.
⦿ I will track all of the points of the contestants and share them after each edging session is completed.

ADDITIONAL RULES:
⦿ Contestants may have up to 60 minutes after completing an edging session to relock to shower and clean as needed

⦿ If you are in first place, your next bid must increase by at least 15 strokes from your previous bid.
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⦿ Sudden Death in the event of a tie for first place: The tied contestants will be locked for 24 hours and you will complete an edging session of my choice the following day.

⦿ Ties for last place will result in the punishment of all those tied for last place.

⦿ The punishment for last place will be a dozen clothespins placed on your cock.

My lockup started at 5:38 PM on January 9th. Time stamped verification photo has already been sent! I’m feeling excited and nervous at the same time. I applied lotion to reduce friction and plan to reapply it as needed to make the adjustment easier. My last orgasm was the morning of the 9th.

Oh boy… here we go. It is OFFICIAL!

(Training days 1-5)

As part of my efforts to ease back into the lifestyle, I’ve decided to participate in a Chastity/Edging Competition on FetLife starting January 10th. Someone suggested that I journal the experience in blog form, which struck me as a great idea—so here we are.

It’s been years since I’ve worn a cage for more than a couple of hours. Finding the right cage for long-term wear hasn’t been easy, especially as a grower. In my experience, metal cages tend to be more comfortable overall, but only if you find the right fit—and that can take time, trial, and patience.

I’m ultimately working toward my dream cage, but for now there are other priorities that come first. For this competition, I’ve decided to use my KINK3D Cobra cage. It’s familiar, reliable, and a good place to restart my journey back into chastity.

Terms of the quest:

⦿ Each contestant will remain locked for the duration of the edging competition.
⦿ The competition will last for 30 days.
⦿ Two days per week, each contestant will complete an edging session.
⦿ Prior to each edging session, each contestant will submit a blind bid with their pledge stating how many edging strokes they will complete.
⦿ Once the edging session has begun, the contestant must continue until they complete all of the strokes they have pledged or until they cum.
⦿ Each successfully completed edging stroke = 1 point.
⦿ Scoring will be cumulative for the duration of the scene.
⦿ If a contestant orgasms while edging, he bankrupts all of his accumulated points and starts the next session with zero points.
⦿ The contestant in last place at the end of the competition is subject to a punishment.

*Full rules will be posted in the online chat.


Note: I have been training for 5 days at the time of this writing

Training Days 1–5:

I decided that the best window of time for me to practice would be after work until bedtime. The time I get home depends on how busy work is, so some days I’m home fairly early. I usually go to sleep around 9 p.m., but no later than 10, which gives me roughly 8–9 hours to lock up.

Putting the cage on the first day wasn’t difficult at all—I’ve pretty much mastered the process by now. Balls through the ring first, then slide the penis under and make sure the ring sits right at the base. There are several tips out there to make putting on the cage (specifically the tube portion) easier. One common method is the “pantyhose or stocking trick,” where you place the stocking over the shaft, pass it through the pee hole of the cage, and slowly pull as you guide the tube on. This helps the penis sit perfectly inside the tube.

I’ve found that method helpful, but depending on the cage, the fabric can get stuck in the seams or even rip. Personally, I prefer using medical nitrile free gloves. I run the wrist of the glove under the base ring, pass the middle finger through the pee hole of the cage, and gently pull. You also need to poke small holes in the other fingers of the glove to let the air escape. While I enjoy how precise this technique is, I can now cage myself without the help of the “magic glove.”

During the first two days, I managed to stay locked for a combined total of 12 hours. There were no major issues—just getting used to doing everyday activities while caged. Things like peeing, getting in and out of the car, squatting, or sitting all require a bit of adjustment. Occasionally, I had to find moments when no one was around to discreetly adjust the cage, mostly shifting the ring to relieve tender spots. Moving it slightly gives those areas a bit of a break. I also noticed that after taking a shower (and trying my best to clean the area), the ring would stick to my oil free skin a lot me and cause more pulling. Nothing a bit of aloe oil couldn't solve.

Getting hard during the day wasn’t much of a problem. For the most part, I could almost forget I was wearing a cage. That is, except for the moments when being locked up turned me on so much that I started fantasizing—or worse, watching porn. A bad mistake. I knew it would be, but I couldn’t help myself. Straining in the cage is oh-so-delicious.

On the third night, I decided to try sleeping with the cage on. Needless to say, I barely got any sleep. Nocturnal erections are powerful, painful, and long. As my cock filled the tube and bulged against the open spaces, the ring—also acting as a cock ring—pulled on my balls. The pain was dull yet crippling, similar to getting kicked in the balls. That lingering, twisting ache in the pit of my stomach reminded me of the situation I was in, which somehow turned me on even more.

The ring made it harder to get soft while I lay there trying to calm myself down with an uncontrollable erection. I was grumpy, exhausted, and frustrated, but I wanted to power through. Eventually, the erection subsided, and with it came sweet relief. As my cock softened, the pain eased in direct correlation. I finally fell back asleep—only to wake up two more times during the night to the same experience. Around 4:00 a.m., I decided to take the cage off.

On day four, after coming home and locking myself up again, I headed out to run some errands. Every time I did something outside the house, I found myself thinking, “OMG, I’m doing this while caged!” and smiling to myself. I also noticed that I was paying far more attention to women than I had in previous days—their form-fitting jeans, sandals, shiny boots, long hair, and soft skin. Some stood out because of their confident, assertive walk; others simply because they were attractive, completely absorbed in their own world and unaware of my existence.

I found myself fantasizing about scenarios where they might somehow discover I was caged—whether by accidentally bumping into me, noticing it through my pants, or picking up on the way I walked. In my head, this would spark a conversation and lead to their interest in participating in my kink. Some fantasies involved blackmail or coercion, others kidnapping—the specifics varied, but the point is my mind was full of highly arousing thoughts. I may have even leaked a drop or two of precum, which I suppose is normal in this line of work.

Friday night (day four), I went to bed with the cage on again. This time, I only woke up twice—once at 1:15 a.m. and again at 4:00 a.m. After that, I decided to start my day. The cage was becoming uncomfortable, but I was determined to reach the 24-hour mark. I ended up setting a personal record: 27 hours, 48 minutes, and 49 seconds.

When I removed the cage, I noticed what looked like an abrasion on the head of my penis and a very sore, almost bump-like spot at the base of the shaft where the ring sits. I decided to leave the cage off for the fifth night to allow some healing and rest. I definitely should not have watched porn, and I need to get better control over my fantasies. The longer and harder my cock stays strained, the more damage it takes—and not in a good way. I really want to finish this competition, but I’m starting to worry that I may have started training too late. Safety has to come first.

Day Five
I’m leaving the cage off today as well. If everything heals properly, my next lock-up will likely be Monday after work.