6 months ago when I started this journey I was very new to it. I had never engaged in anything close but I knew what I like and wanted to try just from lots and lots of research. I met my sub who have years of experience into BDMS as a Dom and agree to submit to me {funny how that happened}. He has limits 🙄 J/k I respects his limits but granted almost everything on his list of Hard Limits are things I want to try geesh. There is one in particular that I just can’t let go PEGGING. Hmmmm I put this evil little mind to work trying to figure out what I could do to change his mind 🤣 don’t hurt to try and 4 months to achieve 😈
Communications- is key just trying to see what was it that made him not want to do it. If I figure that part out I can see how I could maybe change his mind. I had a feeling what is was but needed to be 100% sure before pushing the issues again.
Seduction- that was the easy but hardest part if that make sense. I would send a least 1 sometimes more of a picture, gif, or video of some form of PEGGING but I try to keep it on the romantic side. This help to desensitize him to the idea.
Trust- building that is important and if nothing else he needs to trust me and I him
Penetration- it was so unexpected but definitely music to my ears. I won’t ever forget the session. He turns around looks me in my eyes and whispered in my ear “My Queen ready to take what’s yours” I instantly knew what he was asking and did just that 😍 my hard work has paid off and I didn’t even have to ask {only took 4 months 🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾} patience lol
Lust - OMG and to think I thought the day would never cum lol the feeling that came over me in that moment was like nothing I’ve felt before. The things that sends me into this uncontrollable state still surprises me I can now add Pegging to that list lol
Release- he didn’t quite get a release that night 😱 but not my fault 🤷🏾♀️ okay maybe a little {lot} my fault lol but hey 😈
Intimacy- that next best part of the night
He still doesn’t enjoy it as much as I do but that fact that he has come this far just to please me because he knows I love it!!! I couldn’t asked for a better sub. Now if only Sounding was that easy lol
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