Daddy Issues

HuntertheYeenQueen​(dom femme){Allie Kat} - So... I need some clarification.

You were okay with getting yourself a Daddy, because your husband could not fulfill your needs. He agreed to that?

Your husband found a little because you could not fulfill his and that is not okay to you?

I do agree that, if you two had not explicitly talked about this and he found someone without your permission that is not okay, but... it feels hypocritical to me to be okay with having someone outside of your marriage but then not being okay with your partner doing the same.

I also don't agree that, just because you're his wife means he cant take you as his little. I am my husband's wife, I am also his Mistress. There is no reason why a wife cannot be a BDSM partner too. However I suggest you two sit down and have a serious conversation about both of your wants and needs because it sounds like that was not properly done here. And you might need to be willing to compromise if you really cant fulfill his needs. Just be ready for that.

BabyBoo1110​(sub female) - It's not that I don't want him to be happy and if he needs another little then that is ok. I was under the impression that he was looking for a Mommy not a little. That is why i got so upset.

HuntertheYeenQueen​(dom femme){Allie Kat} - I suppose that makes sense. My apologies for assuming and if I came off rude or anything. I can understand that. I do still suggest you two sit down and have a serious discussion about things, as there obviously was miscommunication. Hopefully you two can figure it all out.