Recently I was asked what I see in my Dom that I don't see in another. And I won't lie when I say that I was very much thrown for a loop when I was asked. When was the last time you sat back and really admired your Dom and all that he is? Well I can tell you this, that I very much take my Dom for granted and I am ashamed to say so.
But after a series of events that took place this last week, I finally sat back and really though about what this man means to me. But before that, I would like to share how we first met.
It all started on this very website. I was very new and having a lot of ups and downs with online Doms. I was getting tired of it so I decided to try to find local people so that I was able to get introduced into the local BDSM community. That way I could meet more people in person.
I came across a person who ended up not only being in the same state, but city as well. I was extremely excited and contacted him right away. I was really only looking for a friend at the time. Nothing more. But over a few months, he and I chatted and got to know one another and decided to meet up and talk about possibly being play partners. He was actually the one to give my my first toy, and I about freaked out by how excited I was from just holding my new crop.
Time passed and we played together more and more. We both were not planning on this happening, but as the months past, we realized our feeling were so much more than what we had anticipated. So we entered a relationship along with the promise of a possible collar in my future.
What I see in My Dom Vs. another Dom is someone who will support me in everything I do. Someone who sees the beauty in his submissive, even when she can't see it in herself. I see a person who will do anything to make me a better verson of myself, and inspires me to do so. I see a strong man who has been through as much shit as I have and still never wavers. A man full of compassion, strength. A man who can lift my spirit even when his is broken. He is my best friend, my lover. My everything. And that.... Is why I chose to submit to him. And only him.
Submission is no mere gift, it is a total devotion. To give yourself to someone completely. To trust them with your soul, body and mind. To let them do what they wish with you, with your best interest at heart.
And with this man, I gladly submit my all.
