So just recently my Dom and I were able to go to a large convention humorously called Spanksgiving. And I have to say! It was a great experience and very much opened a lot of new doors for me.
While I was there I met a lot of friendly new faces. One pair in particular that really peaked my interest was this other plus size couple. The woman was a switch and her partner Mr. Beast was still discovering his stance when it comes to BDSM.
But! That is besides the point. What fascinated me the most was the fact that these two was that they are part of a swingers club. A thing I have heard about but had never really explored myself. Being that I have only ever slept with one partner I couldn't help but be curious about this dynamic.
My Dom and I have talked about adding another person to our dynamic, but obviously have some hesitations to the idea. But after talking to our new friends, I think I have more of an open mind when it comes to adding another to our dynamic, even if for only a night.
Of course this is something that we would both have to agree on, but I can't help but want to try. It does also help that I find both of our new swinger friends very good looking. Who knows? Maybe one day.
But going back to opening doors! I was given the opportunity to top that weekend as well! Only for a short moment, but something about that interaction made something happen.
Not going to lie, it was kind of nerve racking at first, being that I wasn't quite sure what to do. But once I was given a little power and was able to rub a mans face in my ass, it was actually kind of fun! It had me giggling like crazy, especially after the man who I was topping adjusted himself after.
Whether he was joking or not, I rather enjoyed having the power to turn on a man while slightly degrading/teasing him at the same time. This is definitely something I will have to look into more.
I would love to hear from some of my fellow subs and have them share their topping experiences! If you have a story to share please comment below!
