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1 week ago. Tue 12 Feb 2019 02:56:43 AM IST

Holy Shit!!!! Yup, Yay, OMG!!!


1 and a 1/2 days and a wake up!! πŸ˜‹ Woot Woot


Ohhhh the anticipation and excitement!!!



Sir, Wednesday cannot come soon enough, but then i hope it's like time stands still for 12 days!! ❀️❀️❀️


As always, much love and peace to you all!!




1 week ago. Sun 10 Feb 2019 02:18:03 AM IST

my Gift to Sir? submission


Sir's Gift to me? Ownership


** I should have been more concise about the above**


the Gift of submission is just that, a GIFT, any true, real Dom/me knows that! It is not expected, it is NOT demanded, NOR is it used to take advantage of! It is, and SHOULD be HIGHLY regarded and SAFELY used! Submission is something that should be treasured, cherished, loved and ABOVE ALL truly earned!! 

So, please only submit to those who truly deserve your submission, and that may fail, so then know you have a a GREAT community to help, support, guide and be there for You!!!


Back to me... Lol


I am Soooooooo excited!!!!!


Precisely 93 HOURS at this Moment


Which makes me think of this wonderful amazing Play and Movie (Play much better πŸ˜‰)



Much love and peace to you all




2 weeks ago. Thu 07 Feb 2019 02:58:05 AM IST

7 days; or

168 hours; or

10,080 minutes; or

604,800 seconds 

Until W/we are together for 11 full blissful days


Not that I am counting or anything! 🀭🀭🀭


Sir, i am beyond and over the moon, Sir


Much love and peace to you all!






2 weeks ago. Sun 03 Feb 2019 09:17:28 PM IST

I had a few things come to mind today that I wanted to blog about. But the title of this one stuck.


In life we ALL have times of need; needs of comfort, needs of love, needs of support, needs of guidance and needs of honesty and true advice. We have days we fall, days we are lonely and days that it all just seems too much.


That is exactly the reason for my Special Sunday Shout Out


It is to ALL of my wonderful Cage friends... I have said it before and will say it again, I feel so blessed to have found this Community, a place that has become a "safe home" for me. Yes, it's been trying and hard and I have left and considered doing so again. But, it was those wonderful people who reached out and I am so glad they did. I don't know where I would be without you!!


This is also a shout out to EVERYONE on the Cage, being the Staff, the new, the scared, the brave, the curious, the experienced and everyone in between (BUT not you predators or ass hats or fakes - YOU can just, well, you will never listen, so I won't waste my breath)


Back to those this is for..Thank You!!! For being you, sharing your journeys, so openly and raw, as to help others, to those who come unexpectedly to us with a helping hand, an ear, a shoulder, a sounding bar, or just a humourous relief! 


We all have our times, but what we truly have is a Community, one I am SOOOOO thankful and grateful for!!!


With much love, respect and peace to ALL you wonderful people!!! ❀️❀️❀️





2 weeks ago. Fri 01 Feb 2019 06:48:24 PM IST


Happy Friday Everyone :-)

2 weeks ago. Fri 01 Feb 2019 09:03:51 AM IST

So, the LOVE of my life, if you don't know is Halle! She is my Chocolate Lab, 12 yrs old survived cancer and suddenly turned fully BLIND unexpectedly, 3 years ago! Being a Lab. That has to be HARD right? Oh not my "Baby Girl" see strives on and bumps into walls, fences, trips and falls, BUT it doesn't stop her!!! 


The last week Canada (Canucks, Mounties, whatever you wanna call us lol) has had FREEZING weather... Burrrrr like -15F for some of you Americans πŸ₯Άβ„️πŸ₯Άβ„️


Anyway, MY "Baby Girl" blind as a bat, out in now 2-3 feet (probably more) of snow... FREEZING, has a hard time.... SOOOO BEING THE LOVING, MOM I AM.... 



Poor Girl... But it got me thinking about a post how an animal, domestic, dogs in particular, are SOOOO naturally submissive.


There is my "completely blind dog" laying down, letting the ONE she LOVES and TRUSTS wholeheartedly, put on restraints, trusts in that and is like "ok now what?"


If that is NOT where submission came from or used to tame "wild animals"??? I don't know what is... Experiencing that FULL, helpless, undeniable love and trust and reaping rewards.... Oh FUCK, I really AM on the RIGHT path!!!!




Another moment for  Morley


3 weeks ago. Thu 31 Jan 2019 05:26:41 PM IST

It seems like such a simple question, doesn't it? Yet, I read a lot of posts and feel many of us ask ourselves this question often.


When I look back at my life, I have made it through many hardships, some amazing times, some very dark times and some just down right ugly times. However, although I have (and know many have as well) looked "ugly" right in the face, even when it is my own reflection, I still try to see the beauty behind the ugliness, inlcuding within myself.


There are many posts here on the Cage that speak truths, some dark and some happy, nonetheless, they are our truths.


I feel blessed that I have found such a place where I feel I belong, where I can share and others share the same feelings, thoughts, joys, sadness, fears etc. It is a place that I have come to think of as a home, where I have met some incredible, amazing people, who are now very important in my life. And for all that I am very appreciative.


But none of that answers the question: Who am I???


I am not sure if I will ever know that answer because I seem to change and grow daily. Sometimes it is as scary as hell and I just want to curl up in a ball and hide from the world. But, I don't, I get up and say "today is a new day". I fuck up, ALL the time. I make mistakes, I make assumptions and sometimes I not only WAIT for the "shoe to drop", I take it and SLAM it DOWN HARD!!! It's called sabatoging and I am guilty of that too.


Over the past week and more specifically the past few days, I have come to realize that we all have our faults, and mine are plenty, but the difference is a mistake is just that, a mistake! When it is intentional that is NOT a mistake!!! 


I will from now on be more mindful of exactly what is "intentional" and what is a genuine "mistake". That too may seem easy, but easier said than done. Sometimes the hardest things in life seem so simple, but it is that word "seem" which the definition is:


give the impression or sensation of being something or having a particular quality.


Because sometimes it "seems" we are not being intentional, however, when you stop, anaylize and think, your very actions and/or words WERE intentional.


So be kind and mindful and self aware. It is hard, I know, but it makes us better people and the world could use a lot more better, kinder, loving and mindful people. I know I want to be one of those people - always!


Sending much love and peace to you all!





3 weeks ago. Sat 26 Jan 2019 12:53:08 AM IST

Many MANY moons ago, I had someone say something to me. I feel it was a quote being used, not sure, however it has always really stuck with me.


Quote/Said: "I would drag my balls across a thousand miles of broken glass JUST to finger fuck your SHADOW"


I have NEVER met anyone in my life, until NOW, where that "quote" actually resonates with me (and yes, I KNOW I don't have balls.... well not "literally" - probably will get a punishment for that πŸ˜‰πŸ˜²)


So, since officiating our commitment, daily i want to and try to express to You, Master how Your submissive feels about You.


So here it is:

Your submissive would CRAWL, hand and knee across a million miles of broken glass for You, Master. The pain enduring that Master would NOT compare to the pain of the distance between us Master.


Your submissive serves You, Master! Always, Master



Much Love always,






4 weeks ago. Thu 24 Jan 2019 03:27:37 PM IST

I will be with Him


I am excited beyond words



But in ALL truth...... i am sure i will mostly feel like this....

In 3 weeks i will be with Him, in His arms, or handcuffs, or ........ πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰πŸ˜‰


Either way, it be PURE bliss for 11 full days!!!! 


The countdown and Patience begins!


Much love and happiness to you all.






4 weeks ago. Wed 23 Jan 2019 05:42:22 AM IST



What does it truly mean?? 


To me, it meant emphasizing, but it doesn't, really!


"Literally",  is just a word we like to use to make a point, try to make something sound more important! BUT, do we overuse it???


I do!


Facts are that I wholeheartedly, genuinely, lovingly, SAY what I mean and mean what I say!


So be gone is this word "literally" and properly replaced with.........


Oh so MANY different, appropriate words!!!


Much love, truly,