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1 day ago. Nov 23, 2020, 2:32 PM





2 days ago. Nov 22, 2020, 7:21 PM

I LOVE first fallen snow... this morning


And now...


If it continues, maybe I can build some Snow Fuckers this week...


Happy Sunday all! 


3 days ago. Nov 21, 2020, 9:41 PM

Up early and out doing my Saturday drive up North, taking in nature... my mind racing about my needs, my desires, mmmmm. 😈


So, what does a girl do when she is all hot like that? Well she shops of course! So, off to the Farmer's market I went (and NOT for sausage lol) 😁


WELL, it's like the universe was speaking to me.... 


More like "pulling me" to a certain object, or thing. 


No, I don't NEED a purse....


But, when I see tassels on a purse that used to seem tacky to me, now make my pussy wet....


Why? Well, because they look like a mini flogger...



So of course I HAD to buy it... I have floggers, yes, but now I can walk around with one ALL the time, but in the open, with a wickedly sexy grin and thoughts of...



Hope you are having, had or will have, a Superlicious Saturday.



3 days ago. Nov 21, 2020, 4:49 AM

For fun, I started this challenge:


Movie Story of my Life .. 


The Demonic Pilot of the Sausage


With Hair as red as fire,

and an evil cackle for a laugh,

She sits there all heated up 

Really wanting it up her ass!


Then, this sexy Demonic Pilot,

exits from his ship

His nose raises in the air

 Catching her sweet pussy scent


His cock starts to rage

She grins with satisfaction 

She ushers him over quickly

As she needs some S&M action


Out comes the whips and chains

Some floggers & leather belts

Her pussy is now on fire

Like An inferno she's never felt


She spreads her arms & legs 

Wantng him to tie her in bondage


 she takes pause

 Looks at his cock

And realizes it's a sausage!!!




4 days ago. Nov 20, 2020, 7:56 PM

Okay, we need some spice around here so LET'S KINK this place UP!


The Challenge is simple... Get your "Movie Title of your Life" below... Then, write a short (or long) KINKY as FUCK story to go with it:



Mine will be " The Demonic Pilot Of the Sausage!!! "πŸ˜‚πŸ€£πŸ˜‚


This should be fun!!! 


5 days ago. Nov 19, 2020, 5:17 PM

Personally, I HATE panties of any kind. Sometimes when I wear them, it's always a thong! But even those irritate me... I truly LOVE to be free!


However, when I do wear them, I often take them off in my car.... Then I forget about them.... Until.... my landlord moves my car, or I drop it off at the mechanics... Yes, their smiles and raised eyebrows remind me πŸ€­πŸ˜‚πŸ€­


Anyway, today I wear thongs, not because it's Thong Thursday, but because I am getting a massage tonight after my physio. 





And show em if you wear em.... 


And of course, can't forget it's also Thursday Thursday!!


Have a super THONGTASTIC Thursday!


6 days ago. Nov 18, 2020, 8:56 PM


Looking forward to building Snow Fuckers!!! 


Enjoy your day!!! 

1 week ago. Nov 17, 2020, 10:13 PM

Up front, I want to be clear that this is MY opinion only - so take it as you will. 


I will start with the definition of vetting:


gerund or present participle: vetting
make a careful and critical examination of (something).
"proposals for vetting large takeover bids"

investigate (someone) thoroughly, especially in order to ensure that they are suitable for a job requiring secrecy, loyalty, or trustworthiness.


This is my personal opinion, and not aimed at any one person or persons.


For me, it is VERY important to VET a prospective partner, both Dom/me and sub, when considering getting into a dynamic – being ALL the possible dynamics i.e. IRL, LDR, Online only - due to distance (I will speak of another online dynamic later). I cannot stress the importance of asking around as much as possible! And be smart, do not go by the opinion or belief of just ONE, there may be some bad blood. And here's the important factor to remember, ANY prospective will be WILLING to provide you with “references”, there should not be hesitation or refusing as such. To me, this is a HUGE RED FLAG, especially if they say they have been in the lifestyle for X amount of years… those most assuredly should have references.


As for those new to the lifestyle? Well that’s taking a risk, but we are all taking risks in some way, whether we vet, jump in, are new etc. How do we minimize risk? SLOOOOOWWWWWWW IT DOWNNNNNNNN. Get to know the person, like REALLY know them and know yourself too, or as much as you can.


Believe me, this is not some High Horse or Soap Box lecture I am doing… it’s coming from the horse’s mouth. I don’t speak of things that I haven’t personally been through or experienced. And therefore, I get it! I remember being new and overwhelmed and wanting to just JUMP in headfirst. I mean, I am a smart woman, I am confident, I should know best, I… I…. I…… it went on and on. Truth was, I KNEW SHIT!!! I am still learning about me and my wants/needs and will continue to always do so.


So, I caution people, that before submitting/domming someone, be sure you know who you’re talking with. Be sure to COMMUNICATE straight up what you expect from the relationship. I mean, Play is Play and fun as fucking hell, as long as you both don’t want more and consent to it, then have at it. Just be sure to remember it is JUST PLAY and no more. If you only want the fantasy online dynamic (this is the other online I referred to above), the one where you “role play Dom or sub” but there is no exchanging of real names (maybe just first names), real phone numbers etc., again, be sure that is truly ALL you want. You can’t be fine with it one moment and not the next. If you get to a point where you want more, then express that and have an adult conversation. The online Fantasy dynamic is a VERY dangerous one if you’re not careful. You may be in one and not even realize it. If the Dom/me or sub is hesitant in providing little more than their screen name, they obviously DO NOT WANT MORE for whatever reason(s), and this is where I believe a lot of ghosting happens! And if you're afraid to ASK the question, then you have no business being in a dynamic/relationship - that's avoidance!


And now the last of my “opinions”; and I quote that because this is getting way more advice driven... NO ONE WILL RESPECT YOU IF YOU DON’T RESPECT YOURSELF!!! Believe me, people in general will only treat you how you ALLOW them to treat you. They may try otherwise, and that is where you SET BOUNDARIES!


To conclude, I will state how I started…. Don’t LET them….. VET them!!!




1 week ago. Nov 16, 2020, 3:44 PM

Okay.... Here's the original post:


Thank you SSG for this enlightening challenge.... 😈


Today I will put a twist on it (there were no rules about that - and I am the loop hole Queen 😝) 


I can fuck myself so good...

I have posted about it before

Even denying myself the release...

to edge myself some more


Denying me really turns me on

I am a masochist at heart

Oh When HE tells me I can't cum

My wetness is off the chart


So, no log of cumming today

I haven't been given permission

Oh but you can bet my sweet ass

It's going to be my mission




1 week ago. Nov 14, 2020, 11:06 PM

Amidst the Gratitude and Thankful Challenge happening (I love reading them 😊). I have read so many other blogs about people hurting and struggling, in many aspects of their lives...  So, I thought it would be nice to spread some love and inspiration.


The Challenge is easy.... write an inspiring quote, or two, tell an uplifting story (stories) share an inspirational video(s) or pictures and memes. You get the point! 


It's often said and so true.... Smiles are contagious! 😁 So since we can't see a smile here... unless you post that too (good idea). Spread some joy 🌺


Among these days of COVID, let's be carriers of inspiration and spread it wide among here.