I'm not one to have a "draft" post waiting to be published often. Usually when I have an urge to write something, I get those thoughts out and post (after approval from my Sir of course 😉).
But (and I loathe that word), this one has been waiting for months and it's time to get it out of my "drafts" and on here. 😊
A few months back (early November) I was extremely dissatisfied in my job and felt that I had taken on way more than what I was being compensated for. I tend to give way too much of me to my employers, and it was taking a toll on me. This is when my Sir enters "Master" mode. Although He is firm (Sterne 😉) with the rule that my work and family/friends come first before any tasks/dynamic stuff, He will step in when He feels it's for my best interest. He will have a very open and transparent conversation with me stating His concerns and then set some limitations and/or goals for me. For instance, He set weekly goals for me to peruse job postings and to pick 3 in the week that interested me. I was then to send Him the postings and reasons why I was interested, and then apply to said jobs (with proof of submission). This to me is the epitome of what a Dom should do for their submissive. They are after all our leaders, and should be guiding us out of unhealthy situations and into much healthier and better ones (or at least put/lead us on the better path). Anyway, the very FIRST posting that I came across screamed out at me that "this is the ONE!" I immediately sent it to my Sir and He agreed and I applied. He still kept me accountable to find 2 more to apply for, and then the 3 each week thereafter.
Well, being the good girl I am, of course I followed the rules and searched, read, and picked my 3 choices each week. However, I never put in the effort (resume touch up, thorough cover letter etc.) for the others as I did for the first one. Well, my Sir knows me too well and called me out on it stating "You can't put all your eggs in one basket". So, I continued with more effort on the new posting selections, yet still having ALL my hopes on the FIRST, PERFECT, made for ME posting...
And then they contacted me, but it would be 2.5 months of grueling assessments, waiting periods, interviews, more waiting periods, reference checks, then MORE waiting periods. Then, THE OFFER -Yippee 😁. Of course I negotiated, with my Sir's constant reminder of my worth, it gave me that courage. So even more waiting periods (good thing I'm patient), BUT (this is when I actually like the word), I got everything I asked for and then some! Above all? I got a 52% (yes, fifty-two percent) pay increase (I wasn't being paid horribly, just not what I am worth - thanks to my Sir for ensuring I knew my worth).
I start tomorrow🎉🥂🎉
Now, back to my AMAZING Sir. He encouraged me EVERY step of the way. Again, He reminded me of my worth constantly and reiterated daily how I deserved to be compensated for it. He never wavered from this. He still kept me accountable for looking elsewhere while I was going through the nuances of the interview process, however being so very encouraging as well.
Now, I want to touch on His DaddyDom side. Oomph! Wowza! When Daddy steps in, it's a game changer...
When realizing His girl was going through a few BIG life changes - new job, and then discovering that I might very well have to find a new place to live as well (landlord possibly selling house way earlier than expectd), He became the AMAZING nurturing Daddy that He naturally is. HE expressed His need for me to focus on ME, HIS property, HIS girl. What does that mean? It means, He is always in control, always leading, guiding and encouraging me to the BEST version of me. He said He was going to dial back the "dynamic" aspect of O/our relationship, because He didn't want me being overwhelmed (my ❤️ gushes for this Man hourly).
Now don't get me wrong, there are rules and structures I have that will ALWAYS be in place, that I am required (by consent) to adhere to. But my Daddy constantly checks in. HE adjusts U/us, me, as He feels will be best for His girl! ❤️
Now I'm not saying everyone needs the relationship/ dynamic that I have - we are ALL DIFFERENT. I do however recommend to the s types that you be with someone that you not only serve, but one that will always step up, in, beside or in front of you at ALL AND ANY cost to ensure your safety, well being (physical and emotional) and happiness. (this too should apply to D's out there).
I feel I am truly blessed!!! Every.Single.Day.
Thank you Sir -
my Daddy
my Owner
my Master
for ALL that You are and give me! And especially for having me as Yours. ❤️💋❤️💋❤️
