It's been a hot minute since I wrote last. My Sir and I have been busy with each other and focusing on O/our dynamic and moving more into full Power Exchange.
For those of you who have an LDR (dynamic), you know how difficult it can be when you often can't spend in-person time together. It's especially difficult when aiming for full power exchange. However, my Sir is always finding ways to implement structure, routine, rules and accountability (both for Him and I). W/we have discovered an amazing app that W/we are really enjoying and it is helping to bridge the gap of long distance and my Sir really likes how He controls the rules, tasks, rewards and punishments. I am able to put in tasks, but that's it. He seems quite pleased with the app and me, especially with how I am responding to my rules, tasks etc. (every submissive knows the BEST feeling in the world is pleasing our Dominants).
Anyway, one of my "special tasks" was to do a self tie Chest Harness and wear it while I was out and about during the weekend, sending verification pictures/videos to my Sir. Well, there was a big storm coming on Friday night and they said it was going to be the worst of the season, which meant it was going to be a whopper. So, my Sir always making sure His girl is safe in all ways, He removed the task, because He didn't want His girl out and about in that storm. Luckily, it was just through Friday night, although we got 35+ cm of snow. ❄️ ⛄️. Saturday was a beautiful sunny day, so I messaged my Sir to ask if He would put back the task. He immediately called me to discuss in length that my safety is the most important, and I had to show Him the streets were safe to travel on. Once my Sir was convinced it was safe to travel, He issued back my task (YAY). ☺️
I did the tie and showed my Sir (I used Jute rope because I love the "scratchy" feel). He was very pleased (again YAY), especially how I safely tied and it was not too tight. I got dressed and then sent Him more pictures. He noticed (of course because He is always soooooo perceptive) that the V neck of the rope was visible. We then had the conversation of how I was to respond if asked by anyone about it, and then to inform Sir.
So, I left the house and went about doing my errands, feeling the entire time my Harness. It was an amazing feeling and I felt extremely connected to my Sir. While checking in with Him, He noted the same, the connection He felt. It was like we were together in-person. I had stopped for lunch and while waiting for my food, my server asked me about the visible part of the rope. I explained to her as my Sir instructed me to do so...
"My BF and I have a LDR and He is ALWAYS coming up with ways and things to bring us closer together when we're apart. This is one of them. I wear this feeling Him close to me, reminding me He is always with me, regardless if in-person or not".
She seemed to be quite curious to know more, but my Sir instructed me to not divulge any more information, so of course I didn't. I did see her look over at me a few more times, like her wheels were spinning. Then a guy at the bar called her over and i heard him ask her what my rope was. She said "it's something very special and deep between her and her guy". She definitely got it and now I wonder if when she went home she looked up "rope ties"? lol.
The rest of the day I felt my Sir with me, wrapped around me, and the feeling of that closeness was absolutely amazing. ❤️
My Sir tasked me to share this experience with you all and I hope some of you found it informational. And if you too are in a LDR and find struggles of how to stay connected on a deep level? I highly recommend giving or talking about tasks such as this one with each other and implement them into your dynamic.
As always, PLAY SAFE and stay Kinky 😈❤️😈
Morley