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1 month ago. Wed 17 Apr 2019 07:04:48 AM IDT

In a real life relationship. So far so good. I see and feel signs of his dominant nature but not to the extent yet that I’d like for us to enjoy this dynamic.  I’m curious about how the day-to-day real life Dom/sub relationship aspects carrying over into the sexual relationship; and I’m really becoming more interested in the service aspect of submission.  Is there anywhere that would help me learn more re: service submission ? 

1 month ago. Fri 12 Apr 2019 06:36:48 AM IDT

I thought it would be a partner helping me surface my desires as a sub.  Interestingly, my service desires seem to be developing more honestly and intensely by seeing and feeling his dominance surface.  It is a blissful feeling. 🌸

1 month ago. Thu 11 Apr 2019 05:29:05 AM IDT

I’m on the verge of embarking on a new monogamous relationship with a wonderful man in real life.  I see and feel dominance traits in him.  Here’s hoping my ques to him for my submissive needs are not pressure to him.  

1 month ago. Sat 23 Mar 2019 01:26:38 AM IST

I feel I have learned much from others’ blogs and feel secure enough to ask something on my own. 1. Shelf Life. Does the intensity of this type of relationship/dynamic carry an inherently short shelf life? 2. Timing. Does the intensity require more of a time commitment to continue to grow together? 3. Does wondering the above render me a “fraidy cat” NorthernKitten or a brat or needy or afraid of commitment?  

2 months ago. Fri 15 Mar 2019 09:24:05 PM IST

maybe because it’s March but golly I feel wilder than a March hare today. 

3 months ago. Wed 20 Feb 2019 03:05:16 PM IST

It's a fine, thin line between ecstasy and doom making living there with precision balance a rush and loving there erotic.  With connection and communication, unlocking and gifting away that control is a deep trust and intense release.  This is what I am learning.