The inferno...
I think for most of us we have a fire that burns in us constantly. The fire to wanna be loved, held, taken care of, protected and desired. This fire will bleed over into your emotions and show themselves in passionate ways. Sometimes the passion can be a negative...and rear it’s ugly head.
Those negative responses due to the constant fire could be jealousy, self doubt, image issues, attitude issues, etc. They will come out and hurt people or they will stay inside and hurt yourself. These negative feelings or responses are not wanted....but the inferno that burns inside us ladies is what makes us the loving sexual beings that are beautiful and amazing as well...so I guess you have to take the good with the bad.
But how to you balance the bad...without destroying a relationship or yourself? You have to be able to recognize when your fire is blazing out of control and bring it back to a simmer. You have to be able to recognize when your heart is trying to trick your mind...and let your mind take some time and sort it out before you react.
Take a moment and think about the situation and try to sort the details and facts out before you let the emotions take over. Your heart is extremely strong...especially if it’s been hurt before. It will do whatever it thinks it has to to protect itself...even lying to itself. Try to examine all parts of a situation...then let yourself react or not. Try to think about the outcome of what might happen after your reaction...is it what you want? And at the end of it...are you where you want to be? Are you punishing yourself and others for the past? Or is it real and it’s time to walk away?
Only you have the answers. Only you can control the inferno. Do you want it to blaze out of control...and burn people you love and scare your soul? Or do you want to let it burn beautiful and sexy...and keep you and your loved ones warm?
Burn beautifully ladies...
Until tomorrow...