Perceptions
Over time I’ve been guilty of have perceptions of people...some have been accurate...some not so much. I’ve been guilty of making my own opinions about people or things without having all the facts... and for that I am truly sorry.
I’ve learned the hard way...through guilt that you should judge a book by its cover. You shouldn’t make assumptions about a person or a situation. You should gather the facts and have discussions when it concerns you...but if it doesn’t concern you...then why get involved. It’s not your business...
I’ve also been the victim of what I’m discussing above. And this is probably another reason that I whole heartily believe you should have discussions when it concerns you...but when it doesn’t...then the assumption should always be a positive one.
Why do people always jump to a conclusion that is negative...either about the situation or the person. Stop and get to know that person...or if it’s a situation that you don’t understand...then assume that all is well and the people involved either like it or are smart enough to ask for help if needed.
Just because it’s not your situation or how you would handle it...doesn’t mean that it’s wrong. What’s wrong in your world might be totally right in someone else’s....and that’s ok!! Why can we just be happy or glad for someone...in whatever!!??
Just remember the way it makes you feel the next time you get judged for something inaccurately...don’t do it to others.
Until tomorrow...