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Firecracker Diaries - A combination of stories, random thoughts and an appreciation log of life with Daddy

I'm a owned and collared. The journey I have been on with Daddy is amazing...and only gets better! This is my daily entries of what is going on in my head and stories of all the things I’m learning with Daddy!
5 years ago. July 2, 2019 at 1:34 AM

Perceptions

 


Over time I’ve been guilty of have perceptions of people...some have been accurate...some not so much. I’ve been guilty of making my own opinions about people or things without having all the facts... and for that I am truly sorry.

 


I’ve learned the hard way...through guilt that you should judge a book by its cover. You shouldn’t make assumptions about a person or a situation. You should gather the facts and have discussions when it concerns you...but if it doesn’t concern you...then why get involved. It’s not your business...

 


I’ve also been the victim of what I’m discussing above. And this is probably another reason that I whole heartily believe you should have discussions when it concerns you...but when it doesn’t...then the assumption should always be a positive one.

 


Why do people always jump to a conclusion that is negative...either about the situation or the person. Stop and get to know that person...or if it’s a situation that you don’t understand...then assume that all is well and the people involved either like it or are smart enough to ask for help if needed.

 


Just because it’s not your situation or how you would handle it...doesn’t mean that it’s wrong. What’s wrong in your world might be totally right in someone else’s....and that’s ok!! Why can we just be happy or glad for someone...in whatever!!??

 


Just remember the way it makes you feel the next time you get judged for something inaccurately...don’t do it to others.

 


Until tomorrow...

HGB​(sub female)​{Scottish M} - What she said. You just never know. And I don't mind if people ask me for clarification. I would rather they ask then assume. And I do everything I can not to assume myself. Thank you for sharing.
5 years ago

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