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Firecracker Diaries - A combination of stories, random thoughts and an appreciation log of life with Daddy

I'm a owned and collared. The journey I have been on with Daddy is amazing...and only gets better! This is my daily entries of what is going on in my head and stories of all the things I’m learning with Daddy!
5 years ago. November 25, 2019 at 2:00 AM

People watching...

 


I sit here getting my mani/pedi watching all the women coming in and out getting their beauty enhanced for the holidays. I often wonder what their bedroom life looks like....its boring, kinky, multiple partners, polyamorous, non existent, dominant, submissive....there are so many ways it could be. I wonder if I categorize people in my mind according to the way they look? I mean...can you really tell by looking at someone? I don’t think so...I mean I don’t see myself as someone that I would imagine in the lifestyle. What I pictured before I was in it was not someone that looked like me...ordinary. But it sure does give me more of a confidence knowing that I belong to my Master.

 


I’ve never met someone else that’s in the lifestyle...you know it’s not something that comes up around the copy machine at work! I even wear a collar every single day and never have I been asked about it. I get compliments...but never have I been asked what is it for or why handcuffs? I wonder is some people notice it and just never say anything. I think if I saw someone else with the same type of collar on...I would definitely ask!!!

 


We went to a BDSM club once and I don’t know if it was just not up our alley or not...but I didn’t even feel the want to meet anyone there. I would have loved to sit and ask questions to some...but I didn’t feel the need to ask anyone over for dinner!

 


These are the things that go through my mind when I’m just sitting people watching....lol

 


Until tomorrow...

SSG​{ENM-TLP} - I've wondered the same thing about people. One thing that I have realized by meeting some of the people I have here on The Cage is that each person's vanilla life would generally give NO indication they are kinky. It isn't like some Fet Life people who have every nude photo known to man posted on a easily accessible site. You could wear a t-shirt that says, "I'm Kinky" or "Ask me about my Kinks" and start up some conversation. Not really sure you'd want to wear that to work LOL, but to a vanilla event could start some pretty interesting talk. My friends would never know about my life (yet). My husband is about to blow the whole lid off with an event he is organizing locally, so OUT we will be. LOL. It is all about being "sex positive." We were bound up in extreme religion for so long. So many are or have been. Then there's just the overall expectations of others to be "good." What is good anyway? Just something else for you to think about. :)
5 years ago

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