Intimidation
I think there are some misconceptions about the Dom/Sub relationships that are of a negative nature from people that don’t understand it. A submissive allows, respects and invites the Dom the power they have over them...and a real Dom would never abuse that privilege. It’s all about trust and respect from both sides and open honest communication.
Because Master has patiently worked with me to build our relationship the right way and has put in the work to build up my trust in him...this has made me hyper aware of others actions. Specifically I notice other males interactions with other females.
I’ve seen all kinds of interactions. Flirty, dry, polite, dismissive, ignorant and intimidating. This last one is the one that bugs me the most...I like to be treated like a little bit not belittled. I will never be belittled.
I know that some kinksters like the degradation play....nay nay...not for me. But I see it all the time in the vanilla world...someone using intimidation to get what they want from another. It can be a very slight intimidation or full on in your face. I take real exception to it when I see that it is effecting that persons core. Where you can see that they are frozen with fear from the inside out.
Even though I am a submissive...I will not stand to watch others be consumed into a power that was not welcomed. The biggest lesson I have learned in my journey of my submissive to my Master is growing my own inner power. And when your inner power is strong...the Dom/Sub bond is even stronger because you both understand and respect eaches inner worth is the balance that holds you together.
This is why I like to build people up and help them see how to grow and build that power and respect for themselves....and to eventually be able to see that intimidation is a game people play when they don’t know how to win without cheating but when the game is yours and you set the rules and you get to pick the players....then you learn how to handle that shit!
Until tomorrow...
