One of us
We were at a little get together the other day. To be more specific it was a child’s birthday party. We knew most of the people, but some of the people we just knew of. Anyway one of the ladies had on a cute bracelet and I made a comment about how I liked her bracelet...then she proceeded to showing me that she had a matching pair of bracelets...one for each wrist! I hadn’t even noticed the other one...but the minute she showed me I knew exactly what they were!!
I looked at Daddy and he looked at me...and we knew.
Later he asked me...why didn’t you say something to let her know you knew...I didn’t know how to say anything. How would I let her know I knew in a tactful way? What if I embarrassed her? What if she came back and was angry I asked? Which I don’t think she would...but what if I offended her?
What is the right protocol? Do you comment or mention you know what those are? Do you just say hey I really like your sub cuffs...wanna see my collar? Idk??? It’s the first time I have known for sure on someone else...sometimes I think I know but not to sure...but this is the first time I knew and I didn’t know what to say!! Ugh...
Help!
Until tomorrow...