Firecracker Diaries - A combination of stories, random thoughts and an appreciation log of life with Daddy

Mama Bear JJ​(dom female)​{koa} - I've been there twice recently, and you are making the right choice. As much as you love a friend or someone you are in a relationship with, if they are harming your own well being ... emotionally, mentally, or otherwise, and they refuse to realize it or do anything about it, you have to make the choice that is best for you and remove them from your life. You should never feel bad about making that choice or putting yourself first ... remember that you had reasons and they were justified, even if that person refuses to see that or lashes out. More importantly, if they do lash out ... don't respond, know your truth, and that the people who really know and care about you know it too. Hang in there ???

GoddessAaliyah​(switch female) - I agree with your choice to step back from the friendship. If it is harming you in any shape or form, then it is unfortunately time to part ways. Sometimes you just mature and grow while a friend decides to stay stunted and there is nothing more you can do, but continue your journey without them. After all you can’t help someone who isn’t willing to help themselves, especially when it involves finding true self love instead of attention seeking.