Likely not alike
Do you feel a certain way about your partner that is different from the other partners you have had? If it better, worse or the same? Is it completely different? Is it more meaningful? Is there deeper love and trust? Or is it the same or worse than the last.
If you answer this question as yes everything is different and better and wonderful....then it probably means this person is nothing like your ex. Not only they way you interact together, but also the tendencies they will have going forward. Meaning...that not only should you not punish them for something an ex put you through because everyone is going to pay the consequences of your ex’s actions...but you also should also analyze how you reach to an infraction. Are you acting a certain way because of the way someone else did you? Or are you truly looking at the situation as a new issue that has happened between to the two of you.
If you know that the person you are with is the one you have always wanted to be with....why do you act the same as you would if you were with your ex? Can you not agree that an issue that is new to this relationship should be treated differently?
Just think about it....
Until tomorrow....
