Firecracker Diaries - A combination of stories, random thoughts and an appreciation log of life with Daddy

Moonlighter​(dom male) - I think this is one of those, different strokes for different folks discussion, personally I enjoy using gags on a sub I feel it gives me an extra level of control over them to remove the ability to talk (at least in an understandable fashion), I also think that when bringing my sub to climax listening to it through the gag also is a turn on. But that's just me, I've had a few partners who didn't enjoy certain types of gag or just plain didn't want to do it ... so we didn't.

I'm not sure that was much help lol sorry about that.

sexycurves​(switch female) - Never used one. I'm on the fence about this.

Valore - I would have to agree with moonlighter on how it sounds being a turn on. But it can be uncomfortable depending on size, material, fluids and or time spent on/in and how tight.

The discomfort can also be a turn on to some, but as a sub who may be a switch for the right person... I think that if the Dom is uncomfortable with it then that is what matter to me. I enjoy pleasing the one I'm with regardless of my discomfort, however I'm just one of many variety of subs out there.
Everyone has a special beauty and quality unique to them alone and bdsm is 100% consent driven. If you do not like it and you like a dynamic thst allows you to be more open about that with your Daddy (I'm not aware of your dynamics and will not pry to ask either.) ...then that's good too. No one reads minds even though a Dom CAN be very attentive towards that... communication i believe is still very important. If I could further say... from your description of your Daddy seeming to not enjoy it either... perhaps he already saw that u did not as well? Food for thought anyway.

Please take it as just words from someone who has tried a gag, but is new to the scene.