I went ahead and orchard a cellmate device
Good idea I thought for those who are into self locking like myself.
So far I've not been able to push my small balls through the smallest ring. The regular cage in my opinion is a little on the bulky side but hey it gives my little package room to grow.
The catch is that at a certain battery level the device will unlock so you can replace the battery.... roughly 90 days of use.
Other than the app gets constant updates which I guess is good for security checks.
I still wish I had a life mate that could handle my kinks and still get what they want out of me in person.
But who knows.