This will be a short one.
How do you ask for help? When everything is falling apart around you and it feels hopeless.
You worked your ass off. Went through hell to find stability, better yourself and reach new heights. For it to all get ripped away and crushed once again.
The hardest thing for me is as a Dom asking for help and saying everything isn't okay. We are meant to be the stable and strong one at all times.
How do you keep getting up and fighting back? Because getting knocked down so many times gets old after a while.
My priorities used to be about career success (my own business), money, the nice house, the dream D/s dynamic and taking care of my family.
Those priorities changed. Now I realize I need stability. I will still take care of my family, help others in some way and have the dream D/s dynamic (at least I hope) but stability has become the most important.
How do you create or find stability during a time of turmoil?
Or maybe the real question that needs to be asked, is seeking stability a lost cause because it never truly exists?
Thanks for reading this short rambling of what's going on in my head.
