Whatever anyone's reason is for being here it needs to be pointed out that BDSM and kinks are within the realm of Human ADULT behavior.
I enjoy the chat room because it should be a place where mature adult conversation can happen between like minded individuals.
And the bottom line is if you want to chat with the adults be prepared to speak like an adult.
The place to act out your kink is when you are with your Dominant not us.
That is the reason why when you are discussing your needs and wants with a prospective Domly or sub you need to decide when and how play is to happen and what will happen at that time.
I cannot stress enough that it is irresponsible and very immature to involve other Adults in your kink without their prior consent.
And there are adults here in every different stage of life. And they are allowed to make comments that reflect where they are in their life.
Creating chat drama and putting a lot of energy into keeping it going is immature.