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Contemplative musings of a sub.

Honest gut feelings about real issues facing chatters here drawing from what i have been taught and from what i have personally learned.
6 years ago. October 12, 2017 at 2:04 PM

lets consider what being under consideration really means.

 

it means that the Domly is considering offering the submissive or slave a collar.  it also means that the submissive or slave has not yet offered the Domly their (dont forget precious gift) submission.

which kinda means they are both """under consideration"

so lets discuss this....

 

what is the Domly obligated to do for the submissive or slave during this time????

 

and what is expected from the submissive or slave?????

 

what has been everyone's experience????

 

but the bottom line is....until the gift of submission has been offered and until the collar has been accepted........the Domly does not yet have a sub or slave...and the sub or slave does not yet have a Dom.   period.  they both have someone under consideration.

 

Peace

alawey​(sub female){(OWNED BY } - sliver, I just wanted to say thank you for bringing this up. seeing those that know me know that issue I was in. and there was really no under consideration period with that, it was just ur mind and collared . which I know isn't the right way of doing things but was already I always already hook. and didn't see a way out. so I look forward to seeing what every one has to say
6 years ago
T slave​(sub female){Owned} - The gift, as silver so eloquently referred to it is exactly that. As much as I am submissive and a slave to my Master it has always been my choices. Just because someone claims you it is your choice to submit.
It took me 45 years to accept my collar.
6 years ago
Silver​(sub female){not intere} - thank you jenks....you just showed me there is a need to talk about what to do when you are in a situation and you need to leave. its called release. you respectfully request to be released. and more about that later.
6 years ago
Silver​(sub female){not intere} - great point and thank you Ts for sharing it took you 45 years to accept your collar......many many folks think that....boom hurry up and meet your Dom, boom....accept that collar.....hurry hurry hurry...like NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO take your time and offer your submission when it totally and completely feels right for you. its great to go through the consideration phase. its similiar to dating. take your time and enjoy the ride. and then enjoy the discovery of your submission and when you are ready to offer your gift ..enjoy the moment.
6 years ago
alawey​(sub female){(OWNED BY } - sliver, I just wanted to say thank you for bringing this up. seeing those that know me know that issue I was in. and there was really no under consideration period with that, it was just ur mind and collared . which I know isn't the right way of doing things but was already I always already hook. and didn't see a way out. so I look forward to seeing what every one has to say
6 years ago
alawey​(sub female){(OWNED BY } - hey not sure how that happened meaning the repost of what I said. sorry
6 years ago

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