Online now
Online now

Contemplative musings of a sub.

Honest gut feelings about real issues facing chatters here drawing from what i have been taught and from what i have personally learned.
5 years ago. May 23, 2018 at 9:56 PM

lets do this together to see how everone thinks shall we???

 

 

the email arrives in your email and it says....

 

you have fantastic pictures, we might have a lot in common ....lets talk

so 

 

lets go to this persons profile....and we see not much but there are 6 pictures...so lets check them out

picture number 1.  smallish looking white rope flogger that is very very frayed.

2.  face pic.....hes not bad looking.  does not look like a pirate from the carribbean or what i would consider a mass murderer

3.  picture with 4..count them ...4 lengths of white rope all neatly tied up individually

4.  Picture of a deer in front of trees grazing on uncut grass..(??? but i shrug)

5.  picture of an emoji with a phrase that says...add me on kik with his addy or name or whatever that is

but

6.  now 6 is a picture with an assortment of stuff in it which needs your close inspection because while there are clues to this person in the 1st 5 pictures ...there could be a lot of information in the toy picture.

 

a blindfold,a nicer one..not a piece of rag of some old shirt

6 various butt plugs

a vibrating butt plug

a package of vibrating nipple clamps....yes they are in the package

3 different strands of gradated anal balls on strings

couple of rubber bands

a cock ring

2 mouse traps( perk)

leather strap with snaps (unable to tell what this is)

black drawstring from a bag (its not neat so think about that)

and finally a syringe that might have come from a basting kit for that turkey that got fried

 

so while im interested to hear what anyone else thinks ....let me point out a few things.

 

the butt plugs and vibrating one...shows you his focus or he got a deal on them or they were given to him but chances are he is into plugging up a random ass here and there

the vibrating one might mean that he really is interested in seeing that you get a thrill from him

the nipple clamps in the package....bad sign.  are they in the package cause they are  new? or are they just for show and tell.  he has a cool toy or so he thinks.   

now the mouse traps....that is different...they can be used as nipple clamps...dangerous if allowed to snap on a nipple but stimulatiing if placed on gently after getting the nipple hard.  and a word to the wise ....using a mouse trap on a nip is kinda intense. not really  for a beginner.  takes some experience to tolerate.

whats concerning is.....no clothespins.  clothespins are very practical, they are cheap and really do a great job.   he has rubber bands .....to go around the tits, but no clothespins for the nips......(this fact here is what made me decline further discussion)

now the cock ring tells me that he is gonna get something for him.   the presence of that thing says he might even put himself first ....

so the strap the string the syringe....the syringe might be to lube the asshole...but there is not a bottle of lube.

 

so an important fact that needs to be said is....yes no doubt you may have seen ppl boast about using a womans holes when she is dry.  good way to get yourself hurt. never ever agree to it until you have had some experience. and never agree to anything going into your ass dry.  it takes many many months to heal an anal tear. its very painful and you have to take stool softeners to help you heal.

so...

this guy will not get to go have coffee with me.   his toy bag shows he is almost incompatable with me.   i love impact play.  he has one impact toy.  i love tit and nipple bondage and torture and his rubber bands and pakaged nipple clamps are way kindergarten for me....although the mouse traps did seem promising.

 

the big thing that is missing is a hitacchi.  that translates into ...no forced orgasms for me.   no one is going to restrain me, stuff my ass, use me including the use of that cock ring..and i know to begin with there arent going to be any orgasms  until i make it happen for myself.

ive never counted my dildos and my butt plugs but im sure i have at least a dozen of different things that i can use to stuff my own ass hole.he has four undeterminable lengths of rope.  i have no idea if he is any good with rope and what he can do with such a small amount.    if i brought all my leather restraints   then the 4 lengths of rope....might work but it would be me topping from the bottom and for sure that aint gonna happen.

i just wont work that hard.

the blindfold.   while blindfolds are fun...i have a really nice one  that was given to me to wear on the airplane when i fly.  this guys blindfold isnt close.  and i have one...i dont need someone elses  to play with.

so really....i have funner toys at home and i can totally self spank myself.  why am i going to waste the gas in the car going to meet this guy.   its not my responsibility to train anyone.  and if i start my car it better be a guarantee that the trip is gonna be a win win for ME.

so feel free to sound off about whether you would play with him and why.  

mwah everyone

GrimmMaiden​(dom female){GrimmOryx} - I think I'd have to decline, honestly. Anal is a firm "No" for me. That, and he's a dude. Definitely not compatible. ;)
5 years ago
Silver​(sub female){not intere} - thank you
5 years ago
Silver​(sub female){not intere} - geez forgot picture 5. the kik picture. that means im really looking for hookups so ill be expecting sex with you hense the cock ring.
5 years ago
Silver​(sub female){not intere} - thank You for that confirmation Doc. again...im not a whore..so im gonna pass
5 years ago
Devil's damsel​(sub female){HandsomeDe} - I’ve seen this guy’s profile before...the turkey baster had me completely perplexed...(does he want to practice artificially inseminating people?). The mousetraps freaked me the fuck out, I’m not gonna lie...much like a certain someone’s flour sifter although the jury’s still out on that one.

Bottom line is he seems booooooorrrrring and like he only threw those few things in as an afterthought.
5 years ago
Silver​(sub female){not intere} - lol great job dd.....and looks sideways...thats a turkey baster???????
5 years ago
Silver​(sub female){not intere} - see dd i knew you are a sharpie..the last thing about this guy is he used your profile to fine me. cant decide whether to block him or tease him
5 years ago
Devil's damsel​(sub female){HandsomeDe} - Oops...sorry lol
5 years ago
Silver​(sub female){not intere} - lol its ok....but he wont be happy with me when im done
5 years ago

You must be registered and signed in to comment


Register Sign in