Mainly this goes out to the ladies...but it can be useful knowledge for the boys...well the ones who genuinely care about helping their partners be the best they can be.
Orgasms..yes i talk about them a lot. Aside from the pleasure part of them...and the fun getting there...they have a few beneficial perks shall we say.
Well many of us have those lumpy bellies that really annoy us. they get in the way of the zippers on our jeans...and they do much for making us hate ourselves. and blah blah blah..eating right...and blah blah blah exercise....but wait a minute........exercise....not the i hate to work out nonsense.....but orgasms...yes we are back to those...ha ha...getting to the orgasm is a work out of sorts.....and when you have that orgasm you will notice that your belly tenses up with a great belly crunch.
Now you all know why it is that i advocate orgasms out side of the pleasure.....it will cut down on your belly fat.....you just have to make time daily for them and keep at it. become dedicated to your orgasms. this way you wont make your sore knee worse ..or ruin anything else you need on your body for the rest of the long haul. work smart.
my avatar is really me...and it shows that bellies can slim down.
there are emotional benefits too as well. but think about this point...i mean really think about it.....when you cum.....do you instantly think you need a pasta dinner???? no. you are happy and content and the last thing on your mind is..you are hungry. try this just for fun.....if you can..and you have a hunger pain...go rub one out and see what i mean. i know a sub who did this and lost 80 pounds in a year.
seriously when you cum...you are happy.....happy chemicals in your brain. instead of being stressed and packing more inches around your waist .....have orgasms and be happy.....or do stomach crunches cause obviously THEY WORK and dont enjoy any of the pleasure. again.....its a choice and make your choice...
oh and boys......there is another effect giving your partner orgasms has for them AND your relationship with them. first of all YOU have to make a choice to put THEM FIRST before yourself....(that was a spoiler- you have to be smart enough to get that). so yeah .....its a choice...and lets just say when you choose them first, you could end up with a happy person who will expend a lot of energy to put YOU first. so look at it......you put them first ...they put you first....it becomes a very pleasureable circle. and lets just say ...there are no 12 step programs (spoiler alert again) to help either of you stop.
so for the shit heads who only think about themselves and will only ever think about themselves....you truly deserve to never find that sub or slave you fantasize about because you dont deserve them and cant do right by them. karma has a way of being a real bitch. and the forces of the universe wont send you anyone fun if you cannot make it fun for them.
for the record ...i love sitting back and watching for karma to even things up....karma always does.
HAVE MANY ORGASMS!!!!!!