First of all thanks and kudos to our hosts who have generously worked on providing a place where W/we can all speak with like minded individuals.
As many folks here know i never refuse a good conversation even a private one about personal concerns and issues that we all face. With all of U/us spending time here with one another a number of interesting ideas have sprung to my mind.
Yes i am a sub whose been collared approaching 5 years now but id like to assure everyone i looked and searched for a long time before i gave up and before Sir found me. So i understand the aggravation many feel on the issue of finding someone special but Y/you cant expect to find someone instantly...and if Y/you do then congratulations thats fantastic and i am happy for Y/you.
I just want to take the time to point a few things out. Some people just come in to be able to go masterbate and release their tensions. So before anyone passes out private personal information or even gets their hopes up please remember that just as W/we spend time in chat getting to know each other and forging friendships it takes time real time to find a relationship that is going to be worth working on, fighting for and having in the long run.
And before anyone jumps down my throat i also want to point out that its also okay to come in looking for a reason to go masterbate. And so for the subs i want to mention its okay if you decide you want to be someone's toy. if that is what you want ...its okay. but dont complain afterwards that someone took advantage of you. you are just simply not allowed to bitch afterwards.
And to the many of whom i am forging friendships with ....a huge dose of encouragement goes out to all of Y/you. No its not easy. And its easy to be discouraged i remember that clearly. But truthfully you never know what next great adventure is waiting just around the corner for you so please hang in there and have faith.
And in a nice great world where everyone is nice to each other...it would simply be great if everyone was crystal clear up front with ppl they meet about what type of relationship they want, how much time they can devote to it, what their expectations are, or if they just need you tonight so they can wank and fall asleep. But we all know this isnt perfect but everyone does need to be aware of the fact that there are married ppl looking for a wank and some ppl just dont want any strings attached for various reasons.
So lets all try to be kinder to each other and be crystal clear about our intent and what it is that we expect out of one another and maybe some of us can find that someone special.
Huggs and hang in there everyone!
