Contemplative musings of a sub.

short answer is yes!!!!!!

everyone starts out with the interests that drew them to bdsm in the first place.    as you learn about other forms of play and try things your kinks can change to accomodate your new interests.  

and you can drop old kinks if you have replaced them with more exciting and for you funner kinks.

its called growth.  

playing with someone should scratch both of your itches  but it should allow for growth and encourage both parties to change and experiment and experience new stuff.

some hard limits   should stay hard limits.

but soft limits are meant to be sexplored and maybe embraced

and sometimes  pushed with agreement from everyone involved.