Well its no secret that in ""the lifestyle"" there are plenty of people with attitudes that are a little quirky. And and lets be honest here.....some of us are also working and chatting here and there and keeping tabs on folks. And with the way cyber land is you may not get an answer back from anyone immediately. So you leave a message and you go on doing what you are doing keeping an ear tuned to hear the familiar gong noise and there is nothing wrong with that.
Dishes need to be washed, clothes put away, stuff cleaned, phone calls answered and for the most part what you need to do is no ones business. right?
And getting back to quirky attitudes we meet, we chat and people all say some of the greatest stuff you will hear. And then there are people who get all butt hurt because you answered someone in the chat room before them. And im going to be honest here....im looking to see which ones of my girl friends are logged into chat before i check out the cock owners.
And i have 5 years experience collared and so i have girl friends who are subs or slaves and collared. And NO i didnt call my best vanilla girl friends and tell them...."this shit is the bomb you need to watch 50 shades and then join up!" Sorry these are women i have met on my journey.
But i can pick up my phone and call one of them and its possible that her Sir will see its me and answer since that particular girlfriend might currently be challenged by a bit of well placed rope and answering her phone is impossible for her.
And guess what? i can talk to everyone of the Domly's (as i lovingly call all of them) like a friend. there is no thou shalt treat me in a manner that i have made up or else. nope none of that bullshit
So.....imagine how much i had to laff when i checked out a profile and the owner of it wrote.....i do not answer to hi or hello and a list of other crap of course (insert eye roll here).
Can anyone tell me if Dear Abby, Martha Stewart, Dear Heloise, any world leaders or The Hallmark Channel have recently worked together to issue a statement declaring that the words Hi and Hello are no longer the planet earth's customary friendship greeting?????
Heads up.....until that happens then all this gobbly gook that some people think is cool on their profiles is stupid. Stating that you dont answer to hi or hello is stupid. And all this other crap that is stated just because someone is a Dominant or a Domme.....get real.
Just so some of you people understand.....until someone agrees to accept your collar ...or you have collared someone....then you demanding to be respected when you are throwing out gallons of garbage is stupid also. FYI your sub or slave makes you a Master or a Mistress. And all the other subs and slaves running around out there are not there for you to immediately call them whatever you want. And the collared people they may be subs or slaves but they are NOT YOURs.
So my advice is ....put your energy into getting your shit together and showing you are down to earth and real and not a jerk and you never know where it might lead you. stupid is stupid and in case it hasnt occurred to you the subs and slaves that chat at all speak to one another. And we also share information with each other on the predators and you know who you are. and its getting to the point where we all know too.
And most of the subs and slaves are aware that if they have questions or concerns that they should ask around instead of figuring that this is the way it is. Some of you are gonna have to grow up.
