Lifestyle - the way a person or a group of people choose to live or exist.
Well in the short experience i have had i can say that i have found it interesting when speaking to available subs or slaves who are in the market and looking around for a Dominant of their very own.
I have heard my Master when approached by a young sub tell that sub to go to school and get a degree and get a job in their field and get established. And THEN contact Him and HE will consider them. Which makes sense....do your education first and get situated in life and then your thoughts can turn to your submission.
I have also spoken with a number of young submissives who were upset that they were released. And i would have to say that you cannot expect a Dominant to come along and take an interest in you when you should be taking medications for various physical illnesses and you are not. I get it that at first certain medications make us feel lousy or have side effects but sometimes they go away. And sometimes you need to try something else. I have had discussions with subs who were bi-polar, ADD,ADHD and schizophrenic and non-compliant with their meds. And i think this point needs to be made and that is that you cannot expect a Dominant to come sailing along and agree to spending all kinds of energy making sure that you take your meds for whatever ailment you have. Not many Dominants that i have met so far are into micro-managing a sub that much that they are willing to put up with that and commit to that being part of their daily life. And lets be honest. Some people with psyche issues can end up being totally different people when they are off their meds compared to being on them. A Dominant may decide that they do not like the difference in personality. And they may end up caring for you more and wanting to invest more time in you when you are on your meds.
So refusing to take your meds may end up not being to your best advantage. I cannot stress that enough. Being someones submissive or slave means that you are being an adult and adults take their medications because that is what is expected of them by our society. Its one thing for a Dominant to just check to see if you are okay but expecting them to take loads of time to convince you to take todays meds is insane. If you want to act like a child then entering the lifestyle may not be for you. Unless of course your Dominant decides that they want to go through all the grief and drama that you refusing your meds is going to reap for them.
So it seems that when we all put our best selves forward we stand the chance hopefully of having meaningful viable relationships with peole who we can care for and who will care for us in return. You want a Dominant to look at you and be impressed with you and want to get to know you because you never know where it will lead you. But if your personality and your actions turn off prospective Dominants then you have no one but yourself to blame for your inability to find or attract a Dominant of your very own.
A quality submissive or slave will have their life in order (and financially as well) or close to it and be ready to face and make hard decisions if they need to. Life isnt easy but in the end hopefully for all of us it will be worth it. Be the very best YOU that YOU can be at all times because YOU never know just WHO will be watching you, evaluating you and trying to decide if they are interested in a relationship with you. And you are responsible for your life, not your parents, or who ever else you want to blame. A quality submissive or slave will be responsible for themself. They will not have excuses for their hurdles. Everyone has hurdles. And anything worth having in life is worth working for.
If you want this lifestyle then get yourself ready, put yourself together so that you will be ready when the forces of the universe send you that special someone.
