So we all have those moments where we get a message from a new chatter.
This one started with......hi im looking for a sub.
(smirks) oh well thats nice right??????
So i ask....and how much experience do you have??????
and the answer is .......years and years of experience....(insert eye roll right here)
so .......i ask...and i know i shouldnt cause i split my gut laffing everytime i get one of these answers back.......
how long was/is your longest relationship with a sub?.........
(now wait for it)
well i only keep them for 2 to 3 months.
and well....its one of the shortest conversations on the topic a girl can have.
and then thoughts swirl around in my mind....considering just what it is this person is doing to other women.
but moving on
there can be a range of different answers.....serious answers to my question...the one about his longest relationship with a sub.
and regardless of whatever answer you get.....your next question is.....
oh so can i have the phone number....(of whatever sub or slave has been claimed) so that i can call her/him and talk to them.
And you want to ask this person questions such as....
what is playing with this person like
are you still playing with them
if not .......why did you stop playing with them
and you have every right to ask this prospective Dominant or sub or slave if they have any pictures of their work and if so can you see them however do not at this point send any naked pictures of yourself.
Dont for any reason give anyone your personal information, phone number,address...nothing. the emails here on the site are sufficient. Make them talk to you through the emails.
or i suggest that you make a new independent yahoo or gmail account and make it interesting...or put your nic from here on it. and let someone contact you on that account.
a friend of mine was stalked in real life....the stalker took real pictures of her. She turned down his advances. He found her horse in a public stable and poisoned it not once but twice. The security cameras at the stables caught him and pictures were found on his phone of her. So he is sitting in jail waiting for trial but the horse is dead.
be smart and wise about meeting someone new. talk to them for months not days before you consent to exchanging phone numbers or any other personal information. be careful.
if or when you go and meet someone. tell someone you trust that you are meeting someone. make arrangements to call them an hour into meeting someone. and also plan on calling your safe person once you part ways with the person you meet. give that person the name of this person and all information you have on them in case you evaporate.
this is your life you are playing with. it wont take long before you see what nutbags are running around in here. dont take a nutbag home with you they are NOT that much fun in the long run.
dont take chances with your life.
