thank you Nageena for that explanation about yourself. many will no doubt be clueless about the truth that you speak. we all know that for some ......we will notice that being a submissive just seems like its who they are....and the same can be said for Domme's and Dominants alike.
i have felt for a long time that some people are neither and instead of embracing that they are a free spirit such as yourself they pick or choose something for them that ends up only being a label they have attached to themselves.
there again just like any other choice we all have in this life.....its okay if someone chooses a label; just like its okay if a sub just wants to be someones playtoy as long as they are happy ...then we should all be happy for them.
but the people who concern me the most are the ones who just never seem to be happy regardless of which label they choose for themself. W/we can only hope that everyone who is interested in the BDSM lifestyle is able to find and achieve a relationship that works for them. And that the relationship ends up being everything and more than they have ever dreamed of.
and so i applaud all the free spirits out there. i love the gypsy mindset completely. now that i have considered free spirits more i see gypsy, mermaid,fairy and hippie all wrapped up together. and i love it!
there is a saying:
She has the soul of a Gypsy,
the Heart of a Hippie,
and the Spirit of a Fairy!
and so Welcome Nageena and thank you for having found us and taught me about free spirits!!!