kinks- unusual taste in sexual behavior.
We need to talk about this.
Kinks everyone seems to have them and thats awesome.
Kinks and the differences in our kinks can mean a lot of things for us all.
Over the years in my chat room experiences i have learned one thing....you never know when someone has arrived who is trying to try acting out their kink in the chat room.
And this needs to be stated that involving unsuspecting strangers in your kink in an effort for you to find sexual gratification is many many shades of wrong. An example is a masochist making an appointment to have their teeth cleaned because the stimulation and/or pain from the work triggers her endorphins and then she can go home and ride the high. It would be irresponsible for the masochist to have involved the dental tech unknowingly in her kink.
Have watched as some people have seemingly intentionally started fights and then continued to say things to keep the fight going. And then returned to start the same fight over and over again. Some people feed off the chat room drama.
And at times it can be tempting to look at your friends and consider introducing them to the lifestyle. Trying to make someone your perfect BDSM play partner is again irresponsible. Our kinks are inbred into us....we are born with them. trying to teach someone a kink is impossible...but we can all learn about others kinks...and some days it might just to be the right thing to do for that special play partner you have.....to participate in an interest of theirs. It is worth the effort to look around and try to find a play partner with kinks that are similiar to yours. You never know at any time you might meet the person of your dreams.
But setting out to use someone even a perfect stranger so that you can have gratification is bad karma. So dont be surprised when you throw out bad vibes and bad actions.....that they come right back at you like a boomerang.
play safe and be responsible
responsible goes beyond condoms.