So lets get serious here.....
Do YOU know who YOU are?
Do you know what you want?
Do you know what you dont want when it comes to your ideal BDSM relationship?
Saying that you are a blank canvas with no limits is a complete contradiction of being free to be yourself.
are you young?
are you educated?
well its just like vanilla dating.
Be the best person you can be when you sit down to put your cards on the relationship table
what do you bring to the table?
Have you heard yourself tell someone...i need someone who can inspire me to strive to improve myself!
Really????? Again....if you need that...what exactly are you bringing to the table when you talk to a prospective partner?
look everyone has requirements that apply specifically to them.
If you need to be micro managed just to get through your daily life you may need to rethink things a little bit.
I have not met many Dominants who have had relationships where their sub or slave needed to be micromanaged. In fact most have the subs they do because of the fact that the subs were capable of managing normal day to day living and kept up with all the chores. There are qualities that Dominants look for while choosing a sub or slave.
Do the hard work yourself.....encourage yourself to practice self improvement with daily tasks and a self imposed structure.
Get educated
for god's sake grow up and mature
and read
meet people at munches
its just like dating
Choose a Dominant carefully and be wise about it.
The right Dominant will build you up!
The wrong Dominant will tear you down!
