When a woman submits to a man, it's the most precious gift she can give. Herself. Unreservedly. The man has to respect and honor that gift above all else. Even if he respects nothing else in the world, he must respect the woman in his care. It's his sworn duty to protect, honor and cherish his submissive. To take care of her and provide a safe haven. Someone who would put his own needs above his woman's is no man.”
― Maya Banks, Sweet Addiction
Another reason to use the stoplight RED, Yellow, Green plan.
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Stoplight Colors
Red indicates a full stop of all activity and that the scene is at an end.
Yellow indicates slow down, or more appropriately, give me a moment to process that before we continue, I am approaching my limit. Continuous calling of yellow should indicate that the pace and intensity of play be brought down a level or more by the top and that the bottom requires more warm up to reach that level of intensity and pacing.
Green indicates GO! Give me more!. Many dominants prefer not use green as they prefer to set and control the pace of the scene and not be told how to conduct themselves by the bottom outside of an emergency situation that would cause a call for yellow or red.