DOM Trick #1 - Make Her Safe
The trick to dominating a woman is to make her safe: physically, emotionally, and mentally. She’s been raised to maintain the GoodGirlImage™ but if she’s kinky inside, she probably hates it. You can help her drop that facade and get her fantasies fulfilled by making it safe for her to:
talk honestly about her desires
feel your respect of her public reputation
overcome the shaming she’s received because of her desires
not be afraid of getting her heart broken
let her inner girl free to roam
feel accepted just as she is, flaws and all
ask you to help her let her wanton slut free, too
reveal her nastiest, most depraved, slutty fantasies she's never enacted
kiss you so hard you fall backwards
let you access the tainted, broken, twisted parts of her psyche
try new things in and out of the bedroom
jump on a curb when you point at it, for treats
stick her ass out at you while doing the dishes
be fully expressed even when it's an uncommon or unpopular thought
share her personal life and live out loud
see her scars
expand her anticipatory service from you, to home, to work
show you more cleavage than her mother ever allowed
be stripped down to bare soul and stand naked (@YeldahTovah)
splooge a bit in her panties when you force her against the wall and grind
play with herself while watching you do a chore
grind her crotch on your thigh and smile at you
touch your cock surreptitiously in public
titty-slap you when you’re being silly
engage in behavior she would find inappropriate without you
fetch the cane so you can beat her feet
feel your desire to play with the depraved whore that lives inside her
be complete naked in the light before you play with her (@davidsprey)
ask to suck just your balls from under the covers
lick her lips in anticipation of your cock in her mouth
take it deep in the throat
swallow it all the way down
simply whimper when you don’t let her cum immediately
masturbate and orgasm in front of you solely for your pleasure
accept that she looks ravishing right after having her brains fucked out
get on her knees and present her ass for a hard ass pounding
secretly hope someone walks in while you’re fucking her
beg for you to come on her face
be the meat in a spit roast
sit on your face while her girlfriend rides your cock
serve you as the naked ottoman
enjoy the filthy feeling of being used purely for your enjoyment
coax the most vile humiliation from your lips
crawl on all fours to you with crop in mouth
laugh when the suspension rig fails and drops her on her ass
beg to have her crotch slapped until she comes no matter what
cross her wrists in front of you hoping to be strung up and whipped
place forceps, duct tape, and a blind fold on your pillow at bed time
play the rusty trombone on your body
not give a shit when she squirts so hard it hits the drapes
wear socks to bed
become intrinsically and inexplicably bound and connected to you
exhale into oblivious ecstasy
Wouldn’t that be nice?
-SirRender (on another site)
