Music Series #6 - BDSM
Music is always an option when it comes to enhancing a lot of things.
Music enhances life as well as sex, and so it was a natural decision to write about the relation between sex and bdsm.
There are so many songs I could list, but I will have to settle for now. I made a list of 10 of my favorite songs about submission, bondage, and masochism. Some of these songs were a bit of inspiration to me…and how I discovered that I was, maybe, just a little bit unorthodox. I've listed them and wrote a little bit about each song. I will embed a few for listening and viewing, but I recommend discovering these songs on your own, or just add them to your Spotify/Google Play fuck list. Don't pretend you don't have one.
Stripped - Rammstein
Depeche Mode is one of the greatest groups in music history. When I was 19, I bought a widely unknown album called For The Masses. It contains covers of Depeche Mode songs. Critics panned it. Stupid, stupid, critics. For the Masses is one of the iconic albums of my life. Stripped is one of the last songs on the album, and it is a very primal sounding version.
Master & Servant - Depeche Mode
Again, Depeche Mode. Master & Servant is bluntly about bdsm. Almost an advert about kinky sex, it very clearly sex positive. Again, I discovered this song when I was 19 from the For the Masses album. I was introduced fully to the world of music at 19, the first time I had home internet. Being a virgin at the time, this song made me blush and moist in the panties. So it's no surprise I discovered my kinkiness and became a submissive at that age.
Pagan Poetry - Bjork
Bjork is one of the craziest, most mysterious, and creative creatures on the planet. The first Bjork song I ever heard was "Quiet." Such a quirky and unique song. Pagan Poetry, on the other hand, is dark, beautiful, and masochistic. The video was originally banned from cable and network TV for life. Somewhere in 2004-ish, the rules regarding adult content on television changed, and this video could be shown on weekends after midnight eastern standard time. It's wildly masochistic, and Bjork bares her beautiful naked body.
Red Riding Hood - Elysian Fields
Just wow. This song is so hottt. With three t's. Everyone knows the story of Little Red Riding Hood. But there is a niche in this very community of wolf obsessed kinksters I know that will wholly enjoy this song. A seduction song from any omega to their Alpha. *chills*
Good Enough - Evanescence
Good Enough is a beautifully written and composed song. The lyrics speak for themselves. I can't say no to you. I shouldn't be letting you conquer me, but I can't say no to you.
Meet Your Master - Nine Inch Nails
Anyone who knows anything about Nine Inch Nails knows the song Closer and how sexually primal and animalistic it is. This song is even better.
Desire - Meg Myers
This song is for the Dommes. I saw Meg Myers at a concert/fest called Pointfest in 2016. Alpha and I and our children go every year. A lot of people don't listen to or appreciate rock music anymore, and our family was raised on it. KPNT, the Point (who put on the fest every year), is my favorite radio station. Admittedly I was not impressed with Meg Myers' lack of stage presence. However, the guitar in this song is done by - surprise! - Meg herself. That IS impressive.
Ache - FKA Twigs
Yep. The same FKA Twigs I have blogged about. More shibari. And pain, and giving. She really does the bondage her videos, as seen by the marks in her skin. Ache compares the sex and submission to a moth drawn to the light. Love it.
Stroker Ace - Lovage & Nathaniel Merriweather
I LOVE THIS SONG! Stroker Ace is for all the Pet Play lovers and pussy strokers, haha. Mike Patton is featured in this song, and I fucking love him. He's one of the greatest unknown famous musicians that there is. And he's cute and funny, and vulgar and sexy, and a experimentally great singer/songwriter. Anyone know of Anthony Keidis of Red Hot Chili Peppers? This guy was doing Anthony's act/style before Anthony, yet the whole world believed that Mike Patton was ripping off his style. Anthony barred Mike Patton from touring with him. I like RHCP, but Anthony, you're a piece of shit for that. I love you Mike. Faith No More inspired so much music we listen to today, and no one gives Mike credit. Mike Patton FTW!
Say It - Flume & Tove Lo
I discovered this song last spring. I am an audiophile and I love how complex musical compositions are becoming. And I love the lyrics of this song. Sometimes a 24/7 sub will want to submit to a bedroom Dom, simply because lust is a strong emotion and blinds the fuck out of us. Sometimes we stay collared because of the sex, and lie to ourselves, because of our nurturing, giving nature; we look to prevent someone else's heartbreak before remembering to care for our own heart. It's not healthy, but it exists. This song speaks to me like that.
Like I said, that's only 10 of the dozens of songs on my Fucklist. Maybe I'll do this type of blog periodically just to introduce some more. For me, discovering the music that other people listen to lets me into their brain, and it's always been my favorite way of communicating; doing anything really.
Does anyone else want to share some of their Fucklist?
Hope you all enjoy these spicy musical morsels. 💖
🐺🎶💞~Shiro~💞🎶🐺
