6 years ago. January 11, 2019 at 5:27 PM
Why is it so hard for people to believe Dom/mes can be shy?
How I am around other people who I dont know has no bearing on how I am in a relationship. You dont have to be dominant to everyone to be a Dominant. You dont have to be submissive to everyone to be a submissive.
I'm shy as hell til I get comfortable with someone. Doesnt make me any less of a Domme to my love.
And last I checked... theres a good number of Dom/mes just like me. So I'm definitely not an oddball.
Why do people constantly have to judge? Its exhausting.