Why do so many people seem to immediately use titles with those they don't know?
To me, things like Master or Mistress should be /earned/. So why the hell do people throw them around to anyone who is a Dom/me?
As far as I'm concerned the only person who should ever refer to me as such is my husband. And if he decided he didn't want to use that title? Then so be it. I dont care. I already have the highest title to/for/with him in my opinion as his wife - anything else is just... extra and nice.
If you're not someone's submissive, dont immediately assume titles are okay. I know I'm not the only one who thinks this way and quite frankly I'm tired of it. It feels very disrespectful to me. It feels like you're disrespecting my relationship.
Had to go ahead and add it to my profile, not that anyone reads that, because its becoming a huge problem for me. Even Dominants are starting to call me by titles. I don't get it.
Just a vent blog. Pretty pissed off, its been a bad night in general and I'm nursing a bruising elbow thanks to frigging iced-over snow so this was just icing on the shit cake. I just want to be talked to like a normal person. My Dominance doesn't mean shit to anyone but my husband so dont allow it to make you talk differently to me than you would to any other person you dont know.
