Why, oh why, do people not seem to have common courtesy and respect?
Constantly, I'm messaged and propositioned for being people's Domme/Mistress. When it says very obviously on my profile that I'm not here for that.
I'm married and currently monogamous. All I want is my husband. No one else.
And then some of these people have the balls to tell me they're better than my husband?
Fuck you. You're not. Just the simple fact that you're so prideful you think it's okay to say that, proves he's better.
Respect, courtesy, understanding, honesty... All very important in a D/s relationship. You're showing none of those when you proposition someone A) without reading their profile, or B) having read it and choosing to ignore their wishes.
Read a profile before you message to ask for something. Seriously, it takes two seconds.
Makes me want to turn off PMs, but I dont want to deny people who wish to speak about legitimate things.